Oh sis but that’s what your doing- so clearly you don’t have better things to do other than worry about the sex lives of other people
And how is it “misogyny” if he’s a whole ass man-
I’m not shaming you for your opinions. You have your opinions, and your experiences back them and that’s great. It is the general and social norm to view relationships/ sex partners for only one person. It’s not a bad thing. It’s a bad thing to SHAME and belittle others for living their lives differently.
I don’t want to change your opinion on only have sex with one person for the rest of your life, that’s your morals and stand by them. All I’m asking is not to shame or hurt someone who doesn’t. The world isn’t black and white. At this point it’s not even about the uke in this story, it’s about the girl down the street that isn’t in an exclusive relationship with anyone and is dating around to find her potential future partner. Or the guy who is Prostituting himself because his family kicked him out of his house because he is gay and he has no other means of survival, and because of shaming and oppressive words by others he can’t seek outside help.
Sex does not equal the value of a person. Sleeping with multiple people does not mean you don’t respect yourself. Are you saying the people in a loving and function polygamous relationship don’t respect themselves? They are sleeping with multiple people so they are considered sluts, right? That relationship for those people could be more stable, and nontoxic then some of the nuclear families I have seen.
So to clarify again I’m attacking you for your opinion or your beliefs, I’m not even attacking you, I’m asking you, no, begging you to be mindful of those words.
Oh and I’m not judging you for being asexual. I just find it odd that someone from a group who is often shamed is doing it to someone else. Not too long ago society believed and forced the single thought if you were a woman you had to get married and have babies and if you were a man you had to marry a women, secure your “line” and provide for you family (calling back to the uke in this story). People were looked down, shamed, and often ostracized if you varied from that slightly.
Look I hope no one has shamed you for being asexual, but there are asexuals out there who have been called names and judged for who they are; and I just find it hypocritical to shame or judge a “slut” group when as an asexual you don’t want to be “Asexual shamed”.
So... I saw your comment in a question and you said you are asexual. I came to your profile to send a private message to ask about asexuality... But before I could send one, I saw this comments.
After reading your comment and replies... my Gods, you are an idiot.
Thank you! I thought no one has any sense in this comment thread. You're a sight for sore eyes.
Seriously thank you for saying so! I needed that.
And the same conclusion comes back to you buddy
So the uke is gonna be a whore, how sad