Taku and Haesoo...

IrisaAurora October 2, 2020 2:53 am

I think some people don’t understand what it feels like to finally get out of a toxic place. Obviously Taku and Haesoo’s relationship is not that deep, kinda empty (even tho that how relationships start) but I think Taku represents change for Haesoo, like a breath of fresh air and honestly that can feel better than any connection you had to the toxicness. For example, I love my family but my home was toxic. There would always be drama, fighting, you name it. It wasn’t a healthy place. Then I moved away to college and it was scary and I knew no one, but I became the happiest I’ve ever been. Obviously my college friends cannot compare to the love I have for my family but I don’t want to go back. I was able to start fresh and do new things I’ve never done before. I was really just able to start in a different place but make that place better than what I had. And that’s what I think Taku is for Haesoo. They don’t have some magical connection, Taku is just a different person but a new chance for Haesoo to make this relationship better. Before people come for me, you can try to make something awful and ruined decent again, but the history still there. The impact has lasted, the scars won’t fade, you cannot change the past. So Taku isn’t anything special but his character represents a lot for Haesoo

Responses
    Angie October 2, 2020 9:38 pm
    No one is saying that the way Haesoo was before was healthy. We are just trying to point that his relationship with Taku (and breaking things off with Joowon) also put weight on him. And he doesn't look so happ... Angie

    Although it's hard to tell how long H&J had their relationship. We don't know how many years past between their parents splitting up and they meeting again.
    Still it's a much longer period.

    Angie October 2, 2020 9:38 pm
    Although it's hard to tell how long H&J had their relationship. We don't know how many years past between their parents splitting up and they meeting again.Still it's a much longer period. Angie

    Them*

    Angie October 2, 2020 9:45 pm
    Although it's hard to tell how long H&J had their relationship. We don't know how many years past between their parents splitting up and they meeting again.Still it's a much longer period. Angie

    Passed*

    lavender October 2, 2020 10:02 pm
    You know what gets me is that you’re highlighting this one off, despite many pieces of evidence I’ve given you showing positive character development and growth in Haesoo. His mom that’s always been very ... IrisaAurora

    .....what

    IrisaAurora October 3, 2020 2:44 am
    .....what lavender

    So this is where you comprehension cuts off? Nice. Let’s just end this. I don’t know what it is about you Joowoo fans but even when he’s not in the post you guys come screeching at me.

    IrisaAurora October 3, 2020 3:01 am
    No one is saying that the way Haesoo was before was healthy. We are just trying to point that his relationship with Taku (and breaking things off with Joowon) also put weight on him. And he doesn't look so happ... Angie

    I am doing mental gymnastics with this scene? This was a one off thing said by his mom and you guys are taking it as the ultimate representation that he is so unhappy with his life. I get that you guys are trying to say his relationship with Taku isn’t that good. However his growth, confidence, and maturity has shown him to be a much healthier person than he’s ever been throughout the series. His happiness? That is subjective. You don’t think he’s happy, I think he’s very happy. Next caller.

    I think the author made it a very apparent Haesoo is in a better place. They gave him a glow up and made it so obviously in like the last five chapters.

    You clicked on a post that had anecdotal evidence, what were you expecting?

    She implied it.

    Taku was more himself to Haesoo, than Haesoo was to Taku so.

    Yeah Taku has some learning to do. Moving on. What I really like is Haesoo putting him in his place. I think they’ll have a good relationship.

    So I’m quite exhausted by this back-and-forth and it’s quite obvious that we’re not gonna change each other‘s minds so I think we should in the conversation here. I’m not gonna respond to any other replies after this. Great discussion tho.

    Angie October 3, 2020 8:16 am
    I am doing mental gymnastics with this scene? This was a one off thing said by his mom and you guys are taking it as the ultimate representation that he is so unhappy with his life. I get that you guys are tryi... IrisaAurora

    I think there are more hints that suggest he is not happy beside the scene with his mum. It was just another one which was very noticeable.

    I just hoped we won't come back to personal experiences in next responses I guess.

    Have a nice day!