I dont particularly like chowon buthe was also hurt when he knew his husband didn't love h...

kuku October 3, 2020 10:18 pm

I dont particularly like chowon buthe was also hurt when he knew his husband didn't love him
I mean come on even one has a nasty personality he too will feel hurt when they are not loved back by thee ones they love

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    Lika ⊙︿⊙ October 3, 2020 10:48 pm

    Yeah exactly, you get marry to the man you love only to discover that he doesn't care for you at all, of course you will get crazy jalouse and try to know with who he spend his time. I mean, I m not trying to find him an excuse when he even doesn't get what he did wrong.

    kuku October 4, 2020 12:15 am
    Yeah exactly, you get marry to the man you love only to discover that he doesn't care for you at all, of course you will get crazy jalouse and try to know with who he spend his time. I mean, I m not trying to ... Lika ⊙︿⊙

    Yeah

    Fallen_Angel October 4, 2020 1:17 am
    Yeah kuku

    Also Dojun didn't seem like he wanted to bother to communicate at all. :/ He was like "I guess I have to get married to fufill family expectations." Then he spent all his time working and ignoring his spouse. Spouse tries to comunicate but get ignored, then spouse get irritated and nervouse and paranoid and violent. And husband still doesn't communicate and just decides to do other things to placate him in the meantime but doesn't really change the core problem, his attitude, or *cough*hedoesn'tlovehisspouseandisleadingthemon*cough*, and is just causing the mental problems to increase more. I'm not saying Dojun is fullly at fault here but Chowon is getting called a psycho by the world around him without anyone ever trying to actually help him when his world first broke when he got divorced. His parents and family all just treated him like an embarassment, and like previously stated the thing that seemed to give him joy seems to have given him pain now too and be a chore. The violin he cherished he and was upset over being lost he even just abandoned. Like that's just heartbreaking. If I lost my saxophone that a teacher gave e (the instrument I played in high school) I was be crying when I found it again.

    Lika ⊙︿⊙ October 4, 2020 4:18 am
    Also Dojun didn't seem like he wanted to bother to communicate at all. :/ He was like "I guess I have to get married to fufill family expectations." Then he spent all his time working and ignoring his spouse. S... Fallen_Angel

    Omg you said exactly everything and I m sure if the people who are hating on him were at his places they would have been destroyed mentally. May be not going paranoïaque like Chowon but still...
    I mean it wasn't even a lack of communication, chowon wasn't treated as a spouse at all... I feel sorry for him. And hope he get over that ex husband of him

    kuku October 4, 2020 9:47 am
    Also Dojun didn't seem like he wanted to bother to communicate at all. :/ He was like "I guess I have to get married to fufill family expectations." Then he spent all his time working and ignoring his spouse. S... Fallen_Angel

    Yeah dude
    I totally agree

    kuku October 4, 2020 9:50 am
    Omg you said exactly everything and I m sure if the people who are hating on him were at his places they would have been destroyed mentally. May be not going paranoïaque like Chowon but still...I mean it wasn... Lika ⊙︿⊙

    Yeah
    Being treated badly by your own husband(whom you loved) feels like world crumbling
    Why no one sees that
    Although i don't like his personality but dont hate him for it because what he has being through and still remain sane is something one should appreciate

    kuku October 4, 2020 9:55 am
    Omg you said exactly everything and I m sure if the people who are hating on him were at his places they would have been destroyed mentally. May be not going paranoïaque like Chowon but still...I mean it wasn... Lika ⊙︿⊙

    Yeah now i am hating chowon's ex-husband for stating himself all righteous when he never did a self-introspection when
    ( ̄へ ̄)

    I feel bad for chowon for getting such bad husband
    They were not meant for each other
    That why marraige for family prosperity (rather than choosing someone to spend life with) are 5he worst

    Lika ⊙︿⊙ October 4, 2020 6:10 pm
    Yeah now i am hating chowon's ex-husband for stating himself all righteous when he never did a self-introspection when ( ̄へ ̄)I feel bad for chowon for getting such bad husband They were not meant for... kuku

    Well sometime people get married to responsible people(▰˘◡˘▰)
    Just they weren't meant to be together.

    kuku October 4, 2020 8:38 pm
    Well sometime people get married to responsible people(▰˘◡˘▰)Just they weren't meant to be together. Lika ⊙︿⊙

    You mean 'irresponsible' ppl right?