Can someone please explain how this is rape? I’m sorry I don’t see how it is because i...

bokuto.ae October 6, 2020 12:08 pm

Can someone please explain how this is rape? I’m sorry I don’t see how it is because isn’t he giving him consent or am I just dumb-

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    Xeno October 6, 2020 12:12 pm

    Okay- I just copy pasted this from a response that I did to someone else, so it’s not perfect for your question, but it explains the gist!

    —That’s exactly like saying that it’s a r@pe victims fault that they got r@ped for not pushing away their r@pist. Jooin did push him away, and Yawhi didn’t stop- in fact he showed not to care at all when Jooin clearly wasn’t interested. He used sexual arousal as a way of pursuing Jooin. Since then, we’ve gotten no indication at all that Jooin’s feelings have changed at all since pushing him away. All we’ve seen is Yawhi push Jooin around and we have no actual confirmation that he actually likes any of it. He’s pretty much yours using Jooin as a sleeve- not caring about his pleasure at all. Jooin (thus far) is in no way responsive or reciprocating. In most cases, r@pe victims are too stunned to continue fighting their r@pists. Rape isn’t black and white- a yes or no

    Nitrogenix October 6, 2020 12:23 pm

    It's a grey area. Some think it is rape some think it isn't. I think it is to everyone self to decide. It's a big grey area. Lot of people wanna push it down onto rape because they feel the most comfortable with. I think there is allot of explaining to do, There is something about Yawhi we just do not know.

    Xeno October 6, 2020 1:01 pm
    It's a grey area. Some think it is rape some think it isn't. I think it is to everyone self to decide. It's a big grey area. Lot of people wanna push it down onto rape because they feel the most comfortable wit... Nitrogenix

    However- Us not knowing about him shouldn’t excuse that Yawhi has done terrible things in past chapters and continues to not listen to Jooin at all.

    Nitrogenix October 6, 2020 1:08 pm
    However- Us not knowing about him shouldn’t excuse that Yawhi has done terrible things in past chapters and continues to not listen to Jooin at all. Xeno

    Of course, but I think this author isn't making this manga out to be some sort of rapish manga just for smut. I think Yawhi's behavior comes from somewhere, we just do not know it yet. I think They both love each other but not on the same level. Let's just hope Yawhi is going to get some character development soon. But I'm afraid the author is going to crucify him first before things will get better.

    bokuto.ae October 6, 2020 2:29 pm
    Okay- I just copy pasted this from a response that I did to someone else, so it’s not perfect for your question, but it explains the gist! —That’s exactly like saying that it’s a r@pe victims fault that... Xeno

    Oh okay thank you for explaining:)

    bokuto.ae October 6, 2020 2:31 pm
    It's a grey area. Some think it is rape some think it isn't. I think it is to everyone self to decide. It's a big grey area. Lot of people wanna push it down onto rape because they feel the most comfortable wit... Nitrogenix

    Yeah I personally don’t see how it is rape but I was explained a little bit on how it is so I can see why people think that, I feel this recent chapter it isn’t a major rape whistle type call haha, because it’s not like he’s begging and screaming for him to stop and constantly hitting him (unless I didn’t read that chapter right) but what they’re doing is sort of forced.