Oh man

Lol

I understand u perfectly.... BF jealous face is so freaking cute... Muehehe (▰˘◡˘▰)

It really is hehe :3

You'll get stabbed one of these days leading others on...

Well then. I would have understood , "You would get hit", Or "You'll get dumped". But stabbed... That's a tad to far for flirting....

With someone*

Flirting is only a "lead on" if you are overtly sexual. I flirt with my kids friends...they are flattered and feel confident afterwards. It doesn't mean I want to fuck them. There are "levels" of flirting... 1. The kind you give a boss, co-worker, kids friend: Compliments on appearance; arm touching; eye contact; smile
2. The kind you use for close friends, acquaintances and strangers you DO NOT want to have sex with YET or ever: Shoulder, and hand touching; intimate but innocent compliments (not sexual- pretty eyes, body shape-healthy/buff (no specifics "You've lost weight/been working out"), smell of cologne); side long glance with smile
3. The kind used to get someone into bed: Combine 1 & 2 and add leg (thigh) and face/neck touching; specific intimate compliments; sultry eye contact; "chin down, eyes up & smile"; blushing; light kisses on hands or fingers (do not lick or suck- save that for bedroom)
Of course, there are other methods of flirting like laughing at or telling jokes. These can go either way - as flirting or not. This list is just a few basic concepts and does not include every possible scenario. Keep this in mind and you won't get stabbed! LOL

I was an exotic dancer and "house mom" for dancers for over 20 years. I taught girls how to consistently make their customers feel special. Step 1 & 2 will get you lap dances. Step 3 will take you to the VIP room. Before anyone gets their panties in a twist... NO, I DID NOT ADVOCATE OR ALLOW MY GIRLS TO HAVE SEX WITH CUSTOMERS. Relationships with customers were also strictly forbidden.

So you're like a madam? (I think I have the right word there)... But I have never thought about flirting in so much detail haha.

Eeek! No! A madam is the head of a brothel. My job title was "House-Mom". We were all just strippers - no sex with customers. When I became too old to dance, I stayed on to teach new girls how to do the job. Stripping is less about naked dancing and more about flirting and interacting with customers. A monkey can be taught to swing around a pole, but it can't be taught to be a classy woman. It was my job to teach my girls how to be classy, treat customers well and make money legitimately. I also made and repaired costumes, jewelry and accessories for them; gave advice and foot massages; handled unruly customers and kept the girls from doing dumb stuff like sex, drugs and fighting. I choreographed solo and group dances for shows as well. Gosh, I miss it. (⌒▽⌒)

Okay so a Madam runs a bunch of girls who slirt and then have sex... You run a bunch of girls who flirt but don't have sex XD You still both have your harem of woman haha (I'm joking XD) I understand. But sadly a lot of strippers sleep with their clients after hours even if you forbid it I bet it still happens. You can't be 100% sure.... Omg.... I just thought that if you had male strippers as well you should do a dirt dancing kind of theme once a month XD But then I thought that would probably be illegal some how XD And why miss it? You should still dance :)

A madam makes appointments for and profits from sex with her girls. I hope that sets me apart from a madam. LOL Oh for sure, they have sex with customers, not all, but enough to make the rest of us look bad. I actually worked in a co-ed / orgy fetish establishment in New Orleans. Guys and girls "performed" together as pairs and in groups. We didn't all dance. Some only put on sex shows. Each "show" had a theme - S&M, Sensual, Theatrical and Fetishes. I paired with a guy and our theme was "sensual" so we started out in a tango that ended in sex. No one was actually allowed to penetrate - they call it "sumata" in yaoi. Females also had to wear g-strings that were almost undetectable in order to keep their lady-bits covered. That was as far as we could go, we even had to angle ourselves so the audience couldn't see our genital areas. All the sex was fake.
I'm 45 now and I look it. I did all my dancing before 35. I would scare away all the customers if I got naked on stage now. Either scare them or blind them! LOL (≧∀≦)

I new there had to be something like that out there!! But I don't know why I thought it may have been illegal lol.. XD But yes you are apart from the madams out there XD And everyone meets someone through their jobs and well sleeping around I guess.. (Btw I don't sleep around... At all XD 17 and a virgin... And perverted X'D (Joke joke...kinda) But it does make your other girls look bad and in a way it would perhaps cause a really bad accident at the work place. Say one girl sleeps with a guy and he was the wrong sort then he came back and wanted sex from another girl and she refused so he resorted to harsher means (He would probability be delt with before then ) And nope. I think you could still dance ^.^ Everyone has preferences when it comes to body types and I'm pretty sure a lot of people out there would prefer a more mature woman... And the dancing sex thing sounds kind f scary..0_0 It would probably make good money though.

Your theories are correct. I've seen it happen and it's not pretty. It comes with the territory though. Being part of the adult entertainment world is only glamorous to outsiders. It will eat you alive, body and soul, if you aren't strong enough to handle it. I'm sure in a big city it might be profitable for me to still dance, but I live in a small town in the middle of bum-fuck nowhere Montana. If I saw 3 customers a month, I'd be lucky as hell. LOL I'm the type that won't get naked for just anyone and definitely not until I have cash in my hand. Even when I was young, that was my rule. I chose who I danced for, not vice-versa. Mostly because I couldn't put on a good show if I was repulsed or bored. My other rule was to NEVER date or have sex with a customer. I dated a customer once when I first started out. It was horrible. He was constantly jealous and would try to get me to quit daily. I was making $1000 on a bad night and $5000 on a good one. Why would I walk away from that? I NEVER dated a customer again. When I dated others after that, I always told them first, "I'm a stripper. I make incredible money. I will not give up my job for you, anymore than you would give up your job for me. So, if you want me to quit stripping, give up your job first, then we'll talk." Only one guy actually did. When I asked him how we were supposed to live if we were both unemployed, he finally understood the reality behind what I'd said. He was a bit slow in the head. We never dated. (⊙…⊙ )
The tango/ sex was actually incredibly hot. We even got standing ovations on opening night. It was all choreographed, even the sex, to fit in time with the music. We got a lot of compliments and lots of other performers asking to work with us. My partner even ended up with a long term boyfriend from it. Yeah, he was as gay as they come and a uke to boot!! LOL (≧∀≦)

Okay the minute you said your dance partner was gay I was like.. "That sounds hot not scary now", I dont know why haha. And an uke.. You luckky gal XD. And that much money.. 0_) I've joked to my mum before about becoming a stripper I have a feeling my jokes are starting to become more serious.. Jesus that is A LOT of money. I only need ne good night to go japan *_* .... Im to shy for that dammit DX. Other whys I would seriously consider it lol. Although I aren't very good at dancing. At least not at the moment XD. ... Probably never will be I have shoulder and back problems so it's defo out of the question plus mum always glares at me when I bring up the subject XD. (When I say back and shoulder problems my back crack easily and hurts after a while and my shoulder always make a horrible clicking sound when ever I bring my arm above my shoulder :_: So I think I will stick to drawing :3 Although I will never make as much money as that.

My niece wants to be a stripper. I told her I'd break both her legs so she'd never walk again before I'd let her strip. I may sound like a hypocrite, but I know what kind of hell that life is. Drugs and prostitution are as common as cat shit in a litter box and my niece easily buckles under peer pressure. People look down on you and "stripper" doesn't look good on a resume'. I won't deny that it is good and fast money, but it is far from easy money. You can start to think that you are only worth what someone will pay for you. If your self-esteem is not strong, you may even start to believe it.

No matter what you draw or how much money you make doing it, I promise that drawing is safer and more reliable than stripping. Not to mention more "respectable". LOL

Haha it's something my mum would say and that how she looks at me whenever I bring it up, Like she'll break my legs *shudders* but no you don't sound like one at all you just want what is best for her and I would be the same but I get where she is coming from it is good pay but yeah there is a lot of down sides to it. More than there are good sides I suppose. However if she was determined to do that wouldn't it be safer if she was working for you where you can keep an eye on her rather than her working for someone else ?

I haven't worked in a club in 5 years, so there would be no way to keep tabs on her. The clubs she could work in locally would offer more grief than money anyway. She just turned 18 and was pretty sheltered growing up. The clientele appraising her like prime rib for a few dollars on stage, would crush her soul like a grape. Here in Bum-f*ck Nowhere, Montana there are not a lot of wealthy, high class clientele to spend hundreds or thousands of dollars on an evening at a strip club. Here, if guys spend $50 on drinks and tipping the dancers on stage, they've blow their entire budget for the month! LOL Stripping is not lucrative in our neck of the woods. My major money was made in New York, Miami, Orlando, New Orleans, Baltimore and Atlantic City. A bar in the middle of a cow pasture is what passes as a strip club here. It really is kinda sad. LOL

Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh....Yeah not much money to be made there then