Or rape-play.
The word "rape" itself can be a trigger for some people, so it's better to use CNC.
I'm just saying where I live, most people in the kink community are more familiar with rape-play than CNC. Everyone knows what you mean when you say rape-play and not everyone in the BDSM community will if you say CNC so if you hear CNC it's usually followed up by 'rape play'.
We're pretty blunt culturally though. If it's too traumatizing to even use the word it would be difficult to find a healthy dom to take you on. Too much potential for permanent harm. I don't envy the hunt if that's what you're after. Don't do it myself, and wasn't after it when I was a sub, so I don't have to worry about it.
I understand what you mean. I just wanted to introduce CNC since I think there are a lot of impressionable, young people visiting this website. I want them to have a safe and proper introduction into kink, since otherwise they might fall prey into the wrong hands. Thank you for sharing your perspective!
The proper terminology for "rape play" is "consensual non-consent," if any of you ever find yourselves wanting to explore that as a kink.