
she does try to befriend her. I understand what you're talking about but I think you're being pretty harsh. She hasn't done anything over the line. She likes to tease her but she doesn't touch her. She applied to become her maid and did it through her prev knowledge but she didn't do that for malicious intentions

You don't have to touch someone to harm them. How many times do you think you should have to tell someone not to talk to you or approach you before they stop? And now that person that just won't listen when you tell them to leave you alone is in your home and has somehow convinced your father to allow them to be near you all the time. It was an annoyance at school, now you gotta deal with them at home too? Total loss of agency right there.
Have you been reading The Evil Lady's Hero. Rael really want's to be friends with Yunifer and is low key stalkerish about it. But she manages to tow the line pretty well.
i really love the MC and i get that she loves the villainess but i think she’s hurting her more than she realizes, it’s just those moments where she has to accept it bc her father said so or whatever. i might be wrong and this is part of the development but if we get a sad scene where she goes off soon then i predicted it