Benji. I feel like you're an amazing character, but please sit your booty down and do not do the "I'll do everything I can to save you when you didn't ask for it and seem to be doing just fine."
Girl holds the reigns in the relationship (literally). Guy needs to get off of his high horse and recognize that she isn't a maiden that needs to be saved, because she is the danger.
Benji. I feel like you're an amazing character, but please sit your booty down and do not do the "I'll do everything I can to save you when you didn't ask for it and seem to be doing just fine."