while i agree that trauma isn’t an excuse for you to be unreasonable, people deal with trauma differently. and plus, the word trauma shouldn’t be used so lightly not everyone has trauma u gotta be clear about that. he doesn’t know better and he’s dealing with it the way he thinks is best for him. and aren’t you being too harsh on him? idk what he did was so bad that u gotta criticise him like that. you don’t know the impact of the trauma on him so i really don’t think you should be so mean. if you dislike him so much u can always drop the manga. all he did was try to cope with his emotions so leave him alone lmao. everyone puts themselves first and if i was in his position i’ll focus on how i’m coping lmao if i’ve got trauma and it’s affecting me enough to take a break from school the last thing i need is someone commenting on how IM coping from the sidelines. leave him alone
i’m not saying that a coping method where u don’t care about other people’s emotions is a good one but if it works for him let him deal with his trauma and when he’s not enough mental capacity he’ll change the way he copes. that’s how characters develop and that’s how people mature. it irritates me how hypocritical your argument is. so he’s supposed to care about someone else’s feelings and emotions when his is in a mess? so u gonna tell me that you’re always thinking about others when you’re in a complete mess? and don’t get me started on the trauma part. u don’t got the same trauma so don’t talk about that
and using the example u gave, he became a sociopath after what he went through. once again, bc he didn’t know better and didn’t have a good parental figure in his life as well. sounds familiar? and remind me when he sexually assaulted the wolf i’ll correct myself if i’m wrong but last time i checked the wolf was willing? he wanted the fox guy as well? yeah the way he dealt with the situation could be better but did he know? no. was he trying to cope with it? yes. so stop criticising everything he does bruh
exactly what u said, it’s a cause, not an excuse. now learn some compassion and empathy and maybe you’ll understand the position he’s in. i’ve said what i wanted to say, and i don’t wanna have a debate about how someone copes with their trauma. i’m not here for it. and in case u used that against me as well, i don’t have a fav character in this manga. it’s just that i can understand the position he’s in and i’ve got enough emotional capacity to empathise with him. he’s someone who’s been through smth unfair. and yes the way he’s dealing with it is unfair for the other party too but he can always leave if he’s not up to be there for him. or he can stay and help him get better and mature.
Ok how tf did me saying he was pretty lead to this first of all- second of all. Don’t act like he’s doing this on purpose. People with trauma behave different to different situations, his is when they were getting sexual. As someone who knows someone else who has trauma, they don’t mean to do the things they do to people when they hurt them unintentionally, but they do realize when they were wrong. You’re right, there’s no excuse for treating them that way, but at the end of the day they didn’t mean it? You saw how stressed he got after that event and how he tried to distance himself from the wolf. they may not know how to respond, or may be in denial about the effect such an event has had. When someone experiences a traumatic event, their body’s defences take effect and create a stress response. The fox most likely has ptsd seeing from the flashback he got. It’s difficult for him and he’s going through some things, don’t expect a person to act unaffected and act completely normal or okay and just be nice and not hurt anyone along the way with what he’s dealing with. He’s a little fucked up. That truly wasn’t his intentions since he tried to resolve the problem by distancing himself. He needs help basically if his trauma is bad to the point it hurts others or he has to distance himself from others because of it. I’m not disagreeing with you but just consider some things people have been through and why they might try to justify their actions or what they did even though it was wrong or what they might do to solve certain things. I’m not too sure but from the flashback it looks like he might’ve gotten raped or had sex with someone he didn’t like? Both sides are right though, trauma shouldn’t be an excuse but sometimes people who think they don’t need help to fix this don’t get help until it starts to hurt others or figure that they can solve it themselves. Don’t try and make him the bad guy in this situation though.. we’ve only seen him do that so far. He may have been an asshole but it’s not the end of the story, he might apologize he might now idk
The fox is so pretty