Responses

I always thought I had an S personality. I like to be in control of most situations, I have a leader quality to me, always taking the initiative etc. Until I realized that regular life and sex life can be so different! I'm the boss during the day but hubby is boss it seems at night lol. But being an M can be about control too, manipulating your S into doing what you want... Maybe manipulate isn't the right word, but play it out in such a way as to make the S seem in control and dominating
Although sadists & masochists partake in Bondage & Discipline, S&M (Sado-Masochism) is a bit more rough and painful. It's kinda like B&D is high school and S&M is university. All the same elements are there, just more advanced.
The seme in this story has the mark of a "true" sadist... he likes them defiant. It's no fun if they just do what they're told.