A lot of people were hating on the seme for not wanting to bottom. I think that him not wa...

Your_Mom October 25, 2020 4:22 am

A lot of people were hating on the seme for not wanting to bottom. I think that him not wanting to bottom is valid. He attempted but didn’t feel up for it. If he were to feel like that made him less of a man or something along those lines, then yeah... That would be a problem. But I think if he doesn’t want to be a bottom, then his feelings are valid.

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    fire October 25, 2020 4:27 am

    His feelings are valid but he was rude and the way it was wrote out, especially the bit with the uke's friend, just doesn't feel right.

    Queen69 October 30, 2020 9:04 am
    His feelings are valid but he was rude and the way it was wrote out, especially the bit with the uke's friend, just doesn't feel right. fire

    Miya is written to be kind of rude and blunt tho....
    If he didnt want to bottom then that was his choice. I dont think he should be shamed for that i mean we cant say he didnt at least try to bottom for maki. He even said he would have if maki reallllyyyyy pushed for it

    Bald Sangwoo November 1, 2020 12:51 pm
    Miya is written to be kind of rude and blunt tho.... If he didnt want to bottom then that was his choice. I dont think he should be shamed for that i mean we cant say he didnt at least try to bottom for maki. H... Queen69

    I don't know but actually trying once wouldn't have hurt him and he could have decided after that not to do it again. It's immature when he literally pushed the role of bottom on Maki without him really having the choice to be either top or bottom.

    Queen69 November 2, 2020 8:27 pm
    I don't know but actually trying once wouldn't have hurt him and he could have decided after that not to do it again. It's immature when he literally pushed the role of bottom on Maki without him really having ... Bald Sangwoo

    So basically he shouldve sacrificed himself for the uke just because the uke wanted to try being a seme?
    It dorsnt make sense.... its like if the seme forced the uke to be the uke without consent. (Like if the uke said he absolutely didnt wanna be uke)
    If the seme absolutely doesnt wanna be uke and the uke is like okay we dont HAVE to then i think that is perfectly okay.

    Bald Sangwoo November 2, 2020 8:52 pm
    So basically he shouldve sacrificed himself for the uke just because the uke wanted to try being a seme? It dorsnt make sense.... its like if the seme forced the uke to be the uke without consent. (Like if the... Queen69

    It's the reason why he doesn't want to be bottom that bothers people. "It's not natural" lile girl no that's a shitty excuse and trying something out isn't going to hurt you and he might hvae neded up liling it but his ego is to fragile to be the bottom

    Queen69 November 2, 2020 9:24 pm
    It's the reason why he doesn't want to be bottom that bothers people. "It's not natural" lile girl no that's a shitty excuse and trying something out isn't going to hurt you and he might hvae neded up liling it... Bald Sangwoo

    I feel like he just said that because he didnt want to be uke. He prob just couldnt put it to words why he didnt want to and said that.
    Imo the seme shouldnt be judhed because he doesnt want to be uke. Thats his choice.
    JuSt tRy iT YoU MiGht lIkE It
    Just sounds like you guys are pressuring the seme to do it.
    (Sounds like peer pressure in general actually)
    Just cuz someone "Might like it" doesnt mean they HAVE to do it