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Not really. Cuz look at it from a child's point of view, who doesn't really understand death. She finally had a roof over her head, a family and enough food to fill her belly. If the lady were to come back they would have no use for her. Nobility is very fickle. The only thing she could wish for was that. Cuz even if she were to wish for her to be lost she could always come back once. But if she was gone for good she could be safe in that house. So I can't really blame her.
Ah yes, she wished for someone’s disappearance as a kid so she deserves to be bullied and ostracized by her own family and staff instead of being taught why she shouldn’t say that.
Makes sense.