Jihyun deserved better

Meruemshu October 25, 2020 10:45 am

I...I think I am going to stop reading here. I don't think I can make it further without Jihyun in this story I....

I keep crying. I've been crying for a whole hour. My eyes are hurting, probably still red. I am glad that Chinwoo is rebuilding his life. That they've ended their toxic relationship. But...

The bond I've created with Jihyun, with who he is, I just...I keep crying. I realized how this was affecting me at chapter 43. Something funny happened, I laughed, but the second after I was crying because the name "Jihyun" had appeared on my mind.

I...am just so worried for Jihyun I just can't let go off him, I just cant erase the need to help him, to be there for him. And also the guilt of not having been here to help him get out of obsession and so many things that can turn someone into a "monster"

I have definitely failed here, I cant stop crying and being worried. So I'll stop reading this story here.
I will keep believing that Jihyun is not a bad person, his actions are but, in the intentions, in the feels, he doesn't fill the criterias of a genuinely bad person. I will keep him in my heart and maybe write a one shot.

Everyone have a nice time enjoying the rest of the story.
Goodbye.

Responses
    All about love November 27, 2020 12:44 am

    If you were being bullied, bullied to the point of mental and physical breakdown, what would you do to your bully?

    In life we were taught that bullies have a shitty background. Does Jihyun not tick those boxes?

    Does being an abussive person not equate to a "genuinely bad person"?

    Does a rapist equate to a lover?

    I am really curious.

    Meruemshu November 27, 2020 1:33 am
    If you were being bullied, bullied to the point of mental and physical breakdown, what would you do to your bully?In life we were taught that bullies have a shitty background. Does Jihyun not tick those boxes?D... All about love

    So, when you manipulate someone, lead them on, playing with their feelings while perfectly aware it is going to break them, you are completely free of responsibility and Consequences???

    Jihyun was indeed on thin ice because of his past, but don't get the timeline mistaken, Chinwoo broke a very vulnerable being to feed his ego, because he liked that someone liked him even though he didnt like them.

    I have been bullied, what Jihyun did was harassment, not bullying. That's completely different and notions shouldnt be mixed to make it sound sadder.


    If you have for habit to exclude all context from things, and consider that actions should define people regardless of whatever surrounds it then yes, he is genuinely bad. But you are also an horrible being for the addition of all the bad things you've done in your life.

    If you are willing to accept that consequence of your reasoning, then fine.

    To be a rapist he yet has to rape anybody and he didnt

    All about love November 27, 2020 12:10 pm
    So, when you manipulate someone, lead them on, playing with their feelings while perfectly aware it is going to break them, you are completely free of responsibility and Consequences???Jihyun was indeed on thin... Meruemshu

    I am completely lost at your first statement. When have I stated that a person is free from consequences?

    I used the word 'bullying' to show a scenario where it is in a much smaller context.

    You said he is not a 'genuinely bad peson' in your fist comment and now you're saying that he is? Does a person who is harrasing people in you standards not a 'bad person'? This reply of yours is very contradicting to your first statement but i do get you point.

    In your 4th paragraph, if you have that mindset where a person should always be pardoned for the bad things he did then we would live in a place where a person can never be labeled as a bad person. Example:
    A man who was good all of his life ended up killing a person. Should he be be forgiven or not? He was good all of his life so we should forgive him.
    That is the mindset of your 4th statement.

    Rape? Yes he did. The author said so. Language barrier cannot even be used as an excuse. And if you're going to say that it was not shown in the episode/chapter, the reason is this mnhw is not yaoi.

    Meruemshu April 4, 2021 8:03 am
    I am completely lost at your first statement. When have I stated that a person is free from consequences? I used the word 'bullying' to show a scenario where it is in a much smaller context. You said he is not ... All about love

    1. You con need to show crazy action. Just showing an attention and a struggle is enough to qualify as rape and Jihyun showed no intent he literally just hit him. So the author probably made that up afterwards and the fact that they made another end with Jihyun shows how much they're into fan pleasing so the fact that you'd believe anything they say that weren't even hinted in the concerned moment is both sad and funny.
    As an author I know you can make anything up if you're talked to and this is why the reader should only trust what you show. But if you're willing falling for such an obvious trick, your problem.

    2. You completely dismissed my whole point. Chinwoo gave Jihyun light, lead him on knowing his situation, knowing he was a mentally vulnerable person, very very probably mentally ill seeing his past and present, and with ALL THAT in mind decided to toy with him for YEARS.
    The fact that Jihyun clearly said what he felt and warned Chinwoo several times that he was in love with him and that he thought Chinwoo felt the same and Chinwoo played along says a lot about who Chinwoo reallly is.


    He is a manipulative, fake victim who built a person to destroy them.

    Yaoialicia July 18, 2021 11:52 pm
    1. You con need to show crazy action. Just showing an attention and a struggle is enough to qualify as rape and Jihyun showed no intent he literally just hit him. So the author probably made that up afterwards ... Meruemshu

    Girl....you need help

    Meruemshu July 19, 2021 6:26 am
    Girl....you need help Yaoialicia

    If you have nothing constructive to say shut tf up 'cause as you see I have valid arguments.