I know the answer because I buy the Korean raws. And I would not say this is in Doyun. He just started to learning about being omega. It has not been that long. If you remember he never had an symptoms of being an omega and he has been learning. He heats was Irregular. I can remember when he started to smell others smells of everything else. So it is not on Doyun. And no he is not ignorant.
Ohhhh. So we're going to forget how this whole shebangbang started then, are we? We're going to just conveniently forget that it started with:
-ignoring what his doctor, a fucking DOCTOR, had to say?
-forgetting to take his supressents not one but TWO days in a row
-went out in public ANYWAY after knowing he forgot to take them
-goes into heat and pretty much tries to jump Taehan once he scents his pheromones
-Taehan overwhelmed af ends up fucking him
So my question is, how is what this alpha did any different than what Doyun and Taehan did to each other? He was just as much of a slave to Doyun's pheromones as Taehan was? But we're not calling Doyun or Taehan rapists, are we? Where does the personal responsibility ever come in? Gtfo!
Dude. He never had his omega kick in. He probably thought it would not happen because he is 24 and he never went into heat. He is abnormal omega with irregular heats. He is just learning his body.
You are not comhrending the story.
It is completely different. Doyun liked Taehan. This Alpha is going to rape him. It was unwanted. Taehan never acted like that will him. Was Taehan a slave to it? Taehan made sure it was okay with it. And was not a slave to his pheromones. We are not calling them rapist because there was no rape. This alpha was unwanted and going to rape him. Are we reading the same story? If you feel like this. This is not a story for you. And Hello! Doyun is learning personal responsibility. You are still victim blaming.
It's not just Doyuns fault but it also it doyun's fault. As stated before, Taehan happens to be an alpha who has a lot of self control, so much that even in the beginning stages of his rut, he was trying to control himself. So not all alphas are able to control themselves to such an extent.
And frankly, Doyun is pretty reckless mainly because until he got into heat with Taehan he pretty much lived like a beta. He's a total newbie and instead of learning things that he doesn't know to protect himself later, he thinks yeah I'm freaking strong - nothing is gonna happen to me. (The same reason he n taehan have sex the first time too) He's too embarrassed to ask questions cuz he'd be made fun of but he's not doing anything by himself either.
If he wants to take his own sweet time learning how to deal with this and stop releasing pheromones, he shouldn't come to work in a place filled with alphas and deal with it first.
Just like how alphas have a responsibility to have self control and not just jump an omega in heat or when they r in rut, an omega has the responsibility of not putting themselves in a situation like this.
Taehan really has a big responsibility due to Doyun. I love both their characters but I hope he realises how much distress he causes to Taehan
And problems for the other coworkers.
And BTW OBVIOUSLY THAT ALPHA IS AT FAULT. IF IT WAS A NORMAL WORLD IT'S 100 ON HIM. BUT HERE, DOYUN AS AN OMEGA HAS A RESPONSIBILITY AS WELL
I think it's also what Doyun realised. Everyone had been cutting him a lot of slack because he has only just discovered his omega traits but there is a limit. He and Taehan aren't mated so he isn't marked. He can't expect every alpha in the world to have the same level of control and respect as Taehan. He needs to keep himself safe, no one else. He shouldn't have to live in a world where his pheromones could get him sexually assaulted but he does.
And it shows that his body is still changing. Before his heat was tied to Taehan and he was repulsed by other pheromone scents. Now he's on an even playing field where he reacts to pheromones he DOESN'T want to (aka not Taehan's). It's going to be how he realises that he wants Taehan not 'an alpha'.
Doyun needs to take responsibility for his safety and that means taking his meds on time. It's not an indictment of his character, just a fact.
From your earlier messages you can NOT completely agree. Also I don’t remember any one saying Doyun does not have any responsibility for what happened. He made a mistake but you are 100% blaming him for almost getting rape. When it is that alpha fault 100% for that.
“ I luv my bois, but this one's on Doyun. What just happened has to be traumatizing af, but he's wayyyyyyy too old to be this ignorant on something so important. ”
“This one is on Doyun” why he is going to get rape. It is like you wanted him to be rape for a lesson. You made him stupid for a mistake and he is still learning himself. When you are learning something new you do make mistakes and miss you. It is human. I hope people allow you to make mistakes. And his mistake should not be on him for almost getting rape.
I had a whole comment that went in on the alpha, but I don't agree with him being vilified as a rapist for something the main characters did in the beginning of the story. I just realized it got cut off after the clap emoji. Well shit. Too late now
I would have typed he DESERVED that if I wanted to say he DESERVED to be raped. I made the ignorant comment in regards to him ignoring the advice of people who know way more than he does on the subject. For the second or third time now he's brushed off their warnings. For the world he lives in he needs to GET it or situations like this one are going to continue to happen to him. At what do the kids gloves come off for an adult?
I think you need to reread this story. The main characters did not do that at all. Their have been mutual. This was not. It would had been rape. He may clueless or thinks he will only react to Taehans. He needs to learn. You can not judge a fish from climbing a tree. This was not about Doyun actions. It is about no one deserves to be rape. This one is on Doyun you blame him for almost been raped. Victim blaming. When you are learning new things. You forgot things. And new things happened
By the way. If you look at my comments. We are not on the same page. Doyun’s actions are irrelevant. Also he can’t not control his heats. Omega can’t. This one is on Doyun. You blaming him for being almost rape and it is not his fault. If this was you I would never blame you. But you would blame you. If you don’t like it don’t read it. Because that is Doyun’s personality As he leans his new self. You are allow mistakes. It is human. You act like if is a sin. I do think your views are not accurate on parts.
his fault. But time has passed and Doyun has medication he knows that will help control his heats.
It's like saying, I don't know what a seat belt is. Finding out what one is and then not using it. If Doyun gets into an accident then it's probably not his fault but he would have been safer if he had worn the seat belt.
No one is saying that Doyun should be assaulted. He *should* take his medication because that's what it's for. He keeps relying on others and that's not fair. This is about him taking ownership of his omega traits. The same way that alpha should learn some restraint.

Gawddamn! He scrambled his brains all the way up! I luv my bois, but this one's on Doyun. What just happened has to be traumatizing af, but he's wayyyyyyy too old to be this ignorant on something so important.