I understand what he means by not wanting people to hate him, it’s bc of the trauma with his dad, I know from experience it’s something that just sticks to you, aiming to please and not be a bother wanting people to not hate you like his father did
That's not entirely the problem but the length of how he perceived it. Not wanting people to hate you doesn't mean you have to neglect yourself. You can be cautious to others while not being a bother. It's just sounds like a weak excuse on his situation. He's just unlucky but a human still. I hope I explained this okay :)
The two incident was caused by their obsession with Miley like son, Jasper, that's not your luck, that's her luck attracting shitty hoomans. Plus I don't get the 'i don't want people hating me' like are you god??? I'm just getting frustrated to people I shouldn't (￣∇￣")