Sam is my ship. Hehe but yeah i agree sam is an idiot for not realizing his feelings way back. But i dont think henry is stupid for trying to move on and for being scared of the possibility of losing sam and his family. Cos really, sam is one fickle minded person. His only solid choice was henry. Lol
Gwen i said idiot not like they are stupid. But they are so immature and only think about their feelings(there are nothing wrong with that) but their level of selficheness is WOW. Just because they are afraid of getting hurt or the fact they are too dependant of each of others to the point they use others peolpe and bring them in their mess. For exemple the ex-wife of Sam what she did To deserve that? She wasted 5 years of Her life for a selfish man who married Her only To end his feelings for Henry. And Henry he is just washy washy, not able To move on.
I dont think henrys the reason why wife and sam broke up tho. Hes also not the reason sam got married. As henry said on the ch where they got together, sams a "yes man" type of person. He just agreed when wife proposed to him. And sams the type of person whos kind to everyone so wife did not feel special enough in sams life so she broke things off. Sam even said on that chapter "im too stupid to realize but why didnt you tell me? You mustve known how i felt about you even before"(not exact words but basically the same context) so sam wasnt even aware of his feelings for henry when he got married and when he got divorced.
Henrys got abandonment issues so i cant really blame him for being selfish enough for fear of getting hurt. Its a cause and effect thing.
you have a good memory. I know that Henry is not the reason that Sam married Her, and like you said he is the yes man type. He Nice To everyone to the point je is cruel(I don't know if you understand my meanning). Sam could do the effort to treat his wife in a spécial way. And yeah, Henry for this issues from the divorce of his parents. Sorry if i seem rude, but he is a damn 28 years old man, at first i understand him but After.... *sight* . Well, what To say except the fact that everyone has different opinions ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭. Sooo, i am going To respect your opinion. I hope you have a good day ε=ε=(ノ≧∇≦)ノ
Thank you very much for your politness ε=ε=(ノ≧∇≦)ノ You are really polite. Sometimes i feel like people can't express their opinions without someone being butthurt , even when we are polite! And i read love or hate , sometimes i wonder if the authors are not depressed when they write this kind of thing!

I think seth is the most selfless 2nd male lead on a bl love triangle ive ever read. He was all about henrys happiness. He couldve pushed cos henry wouldnt be able to actually leave him but he let go. Best boy seth.