its ignorant of you to think just because someone is 40 or "old enough" they would know what do do in certain situations and that they dont deserve a character dev. People are raised differently and react and handle things in a way they were taught or a way they have learned from experience, yeah maybe its immature to you, but to her this may be the only way she ever knew how to communicate to someone. Not everything is black and white bruh.
Oh shit sorry I accidentally disliked it ;-;))
She’s already parent. With parenting comes responsibilities. I think she’s old and mature enough to what to avoid saying. So basically she completely disregarded her daughters feeling, why did she have to hurt her in the first place?
sometimes these things like that... I dont know her reason or whtvr plus, I'm not a parent but my mom is a little bit like her and when we talk it over, I realise that she is not abad person for not knowing how to do certain things in a way people expect. I'm not saying she's not wrong or its not right but parents arent perfect, they are learning how to be parents just as we are learning how to be adults. Plus, the daughter don't talk or straightforwardly tell the mom her feelings, how will she know? She's not a mind reader...
Yeah ig idk I just have a different opinion but it’s cool x
i don’t mean to say that older people can’t struggle with things like miscommunication or interpersonal relationships, but when you have a child and you’re raising a human being, you have to do better. even if it’s the only way she learned to communicate, that isn’t an excuse because this is neglectful. the same way if a mother was raised on abuse, it doesn’t excuse her abusing her child. the cycle of abuse must be broken. it’s easier said then done of course, but yeah.
I understand that, and I do agree, what irked me is that you said you dont want them to have a character development... but how will u expect her to break the cycle then?
i wanted her to break the cycle when her daughter was born, not when her daughter already had a traumatic and tiresome childhood. she should’ve broken it 26 years ago, not now.
bruh how long we gonna keep going in circles with this cuz my point is, change comes when it comes and that the world isnt black and white when it comes to these kinda of situations and issues thats all thanks for coming to my ted talk
i know the mom (and dad, probably) will get character development, but i don’t want them to. this women is over 40 probably, she should know how to act and communicate with her daughter. it’s ridiculous and immature of her to talk to her daughter like this after finding out she’s pregnant AND getting married...disrespectful as fuck for no reason.