Again? Aight imma head out

I didn't know we were fighting 0.0

We haven't seen the continuation so how do you know the consent was withdrawn?

Im glad u explained n i really really wish u happiness in your life!

Hmm, I just wanted to ask you something, because you have been a victim, which I hope you can get past it, like move on, and live a good life, so the question is: what would you say is the difference between rough or really rough sex and rape, and of course I know it's a question of consent, but many people say no in sex, like they say no but it's no like they want the other person to stop, which I understand, although I think it's kind of pointless to do that, I personally don't, but anyway how would you like differentiate it, because in my opinion it will only be rape if: first, you were not awake or capable of saying no (of course in that case it is also up to the person it self of thinking of it as rape or as one night stand or something), second saying no and maybe reinforcing that with some kind of struggle, or the sex being so rough it looks like someone beated you half to death, of course in the case that the person itself doesn't have some kind of fetish or specific desire that can only be fullfield by being beaten. But this is my opinion, and as I am not a rape victim, I would like to hear your opinion, I have a friend who was raped when he was little, but I don't have the courage to ask that kind of question because I don't know how much he's over it, seing as until recently he had prescription from a psychiatrist and had a regular consult to him, and if you don't feel confortable talking about it you don't have to answer either. I'm always in doubt what questions should be appropriated to ask him or not

First of all, it's okay to ask me. I moved on fast bcs i found out about it much later. The answer changes per person, but I'm gonna give you my opinion.
I was raped by my ex toxic boyfriend when i was in high school. He was really manipulative & always threatening me to send him nudes (or else he was gonna commit suicide

Hey! I answered you but from my device, only half of it is seen. If you cannot see the whole answer let me know! I'm going to write the whole answer again

I think I can only see half of the answer, it's great that you have moved on, my friend was raped when he was little by his uncle, so I know it has been more than 10 years, but still its not the kind of thing someone can get over easily. I always debate with other people in the commentaries when the manhwa has similar seens to these, I give my opinion, but I always doubt if it is right and all, I have never gonne through something like that, although I was bullied in the past, and I always think back to think about my flaws amd think what could I have changed in my attitude, what could I have done and things like that, and I always wonder if people that go through assault ou rape also do something like that too

So to sum up, one day he invited me to his house, we drank and he took advantage of me by threatening& manipulating me, i was forced to give consent. He did this a couple of times n i was super uncomfortable. I live in Turkey (mostly conservative) so i couldn't seek help from my parents& teachers etc. My old Facebook Yaoi Group helped me, they said it was a rape etc. I couldn't report him but i at least managed to break up with him. This is my rape story.+

Let's get to the second question. I like fucking rough. Really. I'm also into kinky stuff (bdsm, petplay etc) and lemme list the differences;
I always have a safe word with my partners. If smth is too much/ uncomfortable for me, i just say the word and it immediately stops. So yeah i dont mean it when i say no in these plays, but i can still express what i feel with safe words.
The difference is in rape: i felt so uncomfortable, my mind was on other things (mostly i thought ab my family), i wanted it to stop, i was disgusted and really like "wtf is going on rn?" i always thought whether i would regret this.
In consensual sex: head empty, i was wanting and feeling it, i was super comfy ab my body& everything, i was enjoying myself, i didn't think anything besides the dick in me, i was sure i wouldn't regret it later.
For me, it's not about rhythm. My rapist was super intense&slow with me. He kissed me all over, he prepared me, he was slow, everything was so vanilla.
In consensual sex on the other hand, mostly it was rough, kinky stuff.
Btw i don't have any trauma for vanilla sex. I still love and enjoy it when i do it with my partners.
After all, its all about the mood& your demands. If you do not demand a type of sex, it will never feel good. And it's always considered as rape.
Hope i answered all of your questions.