Urgh

Sweetie if you are in his position you'll also feel the same way knowing you are not the right person for her/him:>
and having a chance that your relationship wont last long we're just lucky that kaoru found haras note
we all have our feelings we can be weak we can be strong and even the strong can be weak

I understand his dilemma but the least that he could’ve done is talked it out with Hara. He didn’t have to hide the issue and decide everything for himself knowing damn well Hara trusted him a favor of honesty. And didn’t he know already that the string might be a big factor but feelings could affect things as well. If I was him I would hold on to the slightest bit of hope for my relationship with someone who equally loves me as well. Even Arako(?) told him to talk it out with Hara. Kaoru might’ve thought for Hara’s sake but Hara deserves to have a say in it as well since its his life.

KAORU IS NOT AS STRONG AS YOU THINK MAYBE ITS BECAUSE HIS BEEN THROUGH ALL OF THIS SHIT. MAYBE HE THINK IT WILL HAPPEN AGAIN AND AFTER SEEING HIS LOVER MEETING HIS FATED PERSON IS KINDA SAD EVEN ME. DON'T BLAME OUR KAORU BECAUSE HE IS NOT AS STRONG AS YOU THINK. AND I'M STILL UNSATISFIED OF THE ENDING BECAUSE I THOUGH THE STRING WILL CONNECTED TO KAORU AND THEN THEY WILL CONFUSE WHY IT HAPPENS AND THEN THEY WILL THINK YOU CAN MAKE YOUR OWN DESTINED PARTNER

AND PLSSS STOP SAYING THAT IT LOOKS LIKE KAORU WANTED HARA TO STRUGGLED HE JUST THINK HE DESERVE TO BELOVED BY HIS DESTINED PARTNER.TBH THEY BOTH DESERVE TO HAVE A HAPPY ENDING

LOL. I am just stating my opinion and I didn’t say he has to be strong. I was frustrated that he had to handle it ON HIS OWN. Relationships are a two-way street. It takes two people to make it work. If he told Hara about the truth about the destined partner even without intentions of cutting the string, I would’ve been fine with it. I just felt disappointed the way he handled it. Imagine your partner deciding the course of your relationship WITHOUT consulting you, would you have appreciated it?? I think NOT. Yes, Kaoru is pitiable but what about Hara? Doesn’t he deserve to have a say about their relationship? Does Kaoru alone always have to decide what happens to them? That’s kinda unfair don’t you think? I was just saying that instead of talking things with Hara, he just bottles up everything everytime! Thats not how you show trust to your partner. Well, not in my books atleast. I value candor, trust, and my partner’s opinion in relationships.

i.....see......your own opinion huh:>

but have you been in his shoes before ??? sure he should have mentioned it about the string but he have been through trauma. he has been betrayed so many times just cuz he isn't suppose to be anyone's fated person, ofc its gonna be hard to truly holding on to it even if he wanted to. even i have difficulty in that but mine is bcz of disorder that makes me stay away from people when they are trying to get too close to me even if i love them to death. since you are not him you dunno how it is for him. people have different kind of experiences, strenght and traumas. even if that kinda trauma is nothing to you, that doesnt mean its like the end of the world for another person that went throught it

a fact!!!!!!

I’m sorry if you guys don’t agree with me but I stand on my opinion. I don’t like lying when it comes to relationship and I don’t like it when people decide things for me. You are all speaking up for Kaoru but my standpoint is from Hara’s. I know Kaoru went through alot but it doesn’t invalidate Hara’s pain. My point is, if he wanted to break up with Hara and hand him over to his fated partner because he’s scared, so be it. He should’ve just come clean with it so Hara won’t feel betrayed that Kaoru did what he did. And again, my point is, I hate the fact that HE LIED and NOT BECAUSE HE GOT SCARED! If you’re gonna hurt me, atleast be honest about it. I’m the kind of person who hates second guessing people’s actions.

from what i see. you don't really understand kaoru. i know hara deserved the truth and kaoru should have talked about it with him but he have talked about it before. do you think he just wanna hand him over to someone else??? he did say he didnt cut the string cuz just in case things won't work out together so hara would still his fated person. what do you mean he lied and not becz he got scared ... he was obviously scared to the point of breaking yet he took it all. do you think its eaily to trust feelings when you have been there where the love of your life each time just leave him to a fated person and one even married his twin bro. one after another left him. do you think it was easy for him to open up??? i also don't like being lied to either cuz i also had been lied to. my mom married a guy and told me he was her boss and took me with her to live wit him without even telling me she married him. i was even the one that choose the wedding dress cuz she said it was for her friend. i lived my 10 years of life in lies and lived as a puppet. even now i'm in therapy to get over my traumas. it feels like you totally dismissed kaoru's traumas bcz you want it better for hara. you choose not to see kaoru's pain, suffering, trauma and insecurity. ofc i cant say hara also has his pain, insecurity and trauma from being thrown away once and i know hara deserved the truth right from the beginning when the tsring got attached.

But honestly the ending didn't satisfy me i thought the string will chnge its fated pair and the string will connected to kaoru and because of the power of love that it happen and the curse will disappear:<

Tbh, I noticed you’re talking like I hate everything about Kaoru when I don’t. I just said I hate the fact he didn’t honor his words to Hara. When did he lie? Uhmm maybe when he said he promised to tell Hara once his fated partner shows up? He didn’t have to do anything on the thread, just tell Hara. Whether he told him or not, he was suffering anyway. Anyhow, I understand Kaoru went through alot but I just wished he also relied on Hara a little. Maybe I’m a selfish person unlike Kaoru thats why I have a different opinion y’all. Sue me. ʅ（◞‿◟）ʃ

Same. I thought their love was gonna defy the odds of Kaoru’s fate. But as long as they’re happy then thats that.

IM SORRY FOR SAYING THIS BUT HARA AND HIS FATER GIRL THEY ARE LOOK GOOD TOGETHER ITS LIKES THEY ARE GOING TO BE A GOOD FAMILY< BUT STILL TEAM KAORU BECAUSE HE DESERVE LOVE FUCK THAT CURSE:>