THIS
I feel the same way. These dramas might be the reason why Chowon's attitude became a bit awful. He was badly hurt and that carved a big scar in his personality, then he doesn't have any idea how to overcome it. I also would love to see a better Chowon.
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Thank you glad we’re on the same page.
Exactly. Some people fail to realize that and they refuse to acknowledge that some things can fuck people up seriously to the point, they becomes complete stranger to even their selves.
Become a complete stranger*
Yes yes yes! Chowon grew up and had to be the perfect omega. He probably always imagined marrying an alpha and having a glamorous life. Instead his husband ignores and neglects him for years. Chowon actually loves Dojun and is hurt but has to keep up the perfect image. I feel sorry for him.
Same here. Now that they’re broken up and he’s with Kyungsoo I just want him to try and forget about his image so much, and work on his true self.
I feel like a lot of people are still stubborn and don’t want to give chowon a chance to do better. I feel like, he just needs a chance to change himself and he needs to apologize to everybody he’s hurt, not that it’ll do much but that’s the least he could do. He just needs to find himself because I feel he was very stuck at the time he was with Dojun.
Also with the fact Dojun stayed with him and didn’t love him can really hurt someone and leave them sitting there confused, making them feel stupid. I’m not giving an excuse for what he did, just that he needs to grow and maybe he needs a therapist to talk to about things. Or maybe he needs to, connect with himself more, and express himself in a more healthy way. Kyungsoo can also be there to help him through the process of him getting better.
I just want to see Chowon change, I can never bring myself to hate him, because when you look deeper into it, he probably just felt like he was in such an uncomfortable position and he didn’t know what to do with himself, which caused him to lose himself in the process of all that.
I’ve seen people beat theirselves up over their stupid past mistakes. I’ve seen them even start hating theirselves and feeling like everything is their fault. Also the fact that it was their decision, and they chose to do the bs that they did, can make them feel like their the lowest. I’m in that same position at the moment, and I can’t hate people for wanting to change. It’s never too late.
I’m rooting for Chowon though. I’m also rooting for his character development, and him being able to change for the better. Changing for himself, people around him, Kyungsoo, and their relationship.