They're more than their sex positions wtf

agreed. it’s hella fetish-y

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First of all they are still in a relationship we all now the genre of this manga it is okay for people to debate who’s bottom or top they’re not saying or complaint about when they gone doing they are just curious about is this was a yaoi what role they would play
Second of all I hate bl readers cause y’all love throwing the word fetish around without knowing the meaning people can’t just have a conversation about or enjoy a bl with so weird saying they’re fetishing bl
Fetish- form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to an abnormal degree to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body
So before all through that word around so lightly learn the fucking meaning

Truth be told, it IS fetishizing, it doesn't matter, real life or not, this would still kinda count as fetishizing. I hate how you said "I hate bl readers cause y'all", bruh, who y'all? I fucking hate it when they say y'all or all of you, because it's not true. So sorry that we're just telling the truth, maybe we'd listen to you if you worded your 'plead' nicer.

No it is not fetishizing at all get a dictionary look up the word the comments you read have no sign of fetish it is a simple curious of placement between the two and I would “plead nicer” if y’all would stop jumping to conclusions because saying someone is fetishizing is a serious accusation
I agree with the apart with “y’all” because not all of bl readers act that way so my bad but everything else is true

Well in the matter you’re using fetish it’s a serious accusation

Fetishizing can have different meanings, depending on the person, so I'm just saying what it means for the BL community, so in that case, yes, it is/can be fetishizing depending on what you think the meaning is. So for me and some other people, it IS fetishizing. It's simple, I just think from both point of views

Okay so what is the definition for festizing is the bl community cause I never heard of that

Be in real if the only definition for fetish is sexual desire and magical powers

What fetishizing would PROBABLY (don't quote me on this, but it's similar) mean for the BL community is like saying that you'd be a guy to be gay, labeling men as ukes or semes, shipping men together, etc...

Okay well y’all need a different word cause fetish or fetishy is a heavy word but I do get what you are saying

Ty

hi, i see you guys have debated on this but i just wanted to input that using the argument of “it’s okay for people to debate who’s bottom or top, etc.” is problematic and considered fetish-y because it’s objectifying mlm than nothing more than their sex life. this may be a work of fiction but imagine this being applied to real life mlm; it would be quite weird and uncomfortable for anyone to look at two men and just automatically think who’s a top or bottom. of course i can’t stop anyone from thinking like that but this is already such a nice story between two characters with good chemistry that’s already gotten this far without the sex, so i think we should enjoy it as it is. :) i hope that helps

I would agree with you if this was just a simple bl and they didn’t talk about top or bottom but them manga did bring up top and bottom allowing it to be okay for people to debate whether who is the top or bottom evidence of this is in chapter 59 but I agree with what you are saying, for example in the bl 19 days no such thing mentions top or bottom or anything sexual so if people would start talking about stuff like that then that would be “fetishy”
that being said this manga/author open the debate about bottoms and top therefore people are allowed to talk and have a discussion about it

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Lmaoo yeah instead of me typing this I should exactly been working on my essay

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