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i think the relationship changes, it does'nt just become colder. My parents have been together 40 years, they still figth a lot, and they are still very much in love. Probably not the same than when they got married but love in a deeper way if less enthusiastic. My mom once told me that regularly she asks herself if she still loves and wants to be with my father, and every time she answers yes. But the important thing is to ask yourself the question, even if the answer could be no, so that being with the other never ever becomes a habit
idk it makes me really sad because it is a normal problem and everyone goes through it after being together for a long time, but it just makes me feel sad that me and my partner are gonna be like that, and he's no longer interested in me or feels the need to impress of me. or worse, he's bored of me. and vice versa. i might no longer find him attractive anymore. and that hurts