I agree.
it should be the other way around, therapy 1st , get stability in himself and his life, and THEN a possible relationship with another person
Honestly you're not wrong.
But sometimes they just have a hard time accepting and processing the fact that they're somewhat ill so they just kinda shit themselves out even more when they're getting therapy.
And what's more frustrating in his case is that instead of people trying to understand his situation, he was called names and labeled a lunatic instead.
We can't really prove that therapy works for everyone. Sometimes they just want someone closer than a therapist. Like a lover or a close friend.
yes, however if he doesn’t get in a stable relationship before therapy would the therapy work? cause at first i also thought i would be therapy first but rn the problem he has are caused by the one sided relationship when he was married and now he has someone to love him wouldn’t it be better to solve the relationship first? im not sure im just stating my opinion so if u don’t agree i don’t mind :)
tbh what chowon needs is obviously kyungsoo(for obvious reasons) and a fucking therapist once he’s in a stable and loving relationship he should go to a therapist and get dojun out of his head :)