because chowon hurts heesoo & now kyungsoo because he wants a dick he can't have. dojun being an asshole shouldn't be an excuse for the borderline criminal behaviour (I.e what he did to heesoo)
What did dojun do? I can't remember lmao
AGREE!! i don’t dislike dojun but i HATE how everyone’s blaming chowon for everything,,, as if dojun and chowons family had nothing to do with why he now gets intrusive thoughts. dojun literally gave no love whatsoever to chowon & never appreciated him.
you do realize they’re talking about why chowon has intrusive thoughts NOW, right.. we aren’t talking about what’s happened in recent chapters, we’re talking about chowons trauma and what dojun did to chowon even before his relationship with heesoo.
Yeah, but what he said is this: "It's just so annoying how everyone is blaming chowoon and not realising the damage dojun caused"
When rape/attempted rape is done on an innocent 3rd party out of anger towards the person who actually hurt him, most people realize that's wrong and dislike the one who did it, regardless of their trauma.
Plus, we didn't really see what all happened with Dojun, just glimpses, but we did see Chowon try to have Heeso gang-raped in detail and be rude about Byul. Which makes it harder to sympathize with the character.
im confused... serious? dojun do what better? i think he handled everything chowon did to him and heesoo great! chowon is the one who should have done better and im not going to say otherwise just because he overdosed. dojun literally did almost nothing to chowon but officially break their relationship again just as chowon did when he divorced him. why should dowon be merciful to someone he’s divorced from and kidnapped his lover? but he was. chowon caused that “damage” himself. and then he began to hurt kyungsoo. did you forget all that shit he told kyungsoo in the park? they blame him for the heesoo thing because that was his fault. they can blame him for overdosing because dojun has no part in how many pills he takes. chowon developed that after dowon said i want nothing to do with you. not before. whenever someone overdoses or try to kill themselves they’re automatically the victim. dojun has literally done nothing to chowon and im confused as to how you cant see that...
- trauma is different from mental illness. -
and you just brought up one of my points, we didn’t see all that happened <only glimpses>. if we only saw glimpses and we already new it was a one sided relationship then imagine how it was for years in his point of view.
idrc about the baby lmfao all he did was wipe his hand..
Do you understand that mental torture of living with someone you are married to. And they never sleep at home or even interact with you. And for alpha and omega relationship, the alpha needs to release his pheromones for the omega to feel secure and be stable. I am not talking about what chowoon did after. I am talking about what dojun did before. Imagine being in a marriage with no talk, no sex no eating together, no lovey dovey moment. You are just there in the marriage alone. Dojun knows he doesn't love chowoon, why did he get married to him. After the marriage, when he knows he is uncomfortable with him. He should have just ended it earlier and not pretend like chowoon didn't exist. Imagine Chowoon living in a house alone, waiting for the husband to come but he doesn't show up and when he does, he probably goes to sleep without uttering anything. I don't know about you but I think it is enough for someone to go crazy and lose their minds. Especially if they have little mental capacity. Jealousy is a very strong emotion.... It can ruin people if they aren't careful....
It was more his whole attitude. Coming in, clearing glancing at and ignoring Heeso, Hye-sung and Byul, acting all friendly towards the parents, and when introduced to Hye-sung and Byul he was friendly to them in front of the parents. However he wiped his hand off immediately after their backs were tuned and flipped away, clearly ignoring them again. Very two-faced, manipulative attitude and that's a turn off for most people.
I'm not saying Dojun is completely innocent, but the things Chowon did were worse than what Dojun did and then he never even admitted he made a mistake. When confronted, he declared that Heeso got what he deserved for touching what's his. No remorse. Why can't I blame him again?
I dislike dojun now after reading this chapter...... He could have done better I swear.... It's just so annoying how everyone is blaming chowoon and not realising the damage dojun caused.....