This hurts my heart so much and I’m sobbing. y’all who said that he should die r fucki...

I always knew that I fucked up November 24, 2020 2:11 am

This hurts my heart so much and I’m sobbing. y’all who said that he should die r fucking disgusting. He has so much pressure from his family and he even has a personality disorder which makes everything 100x harder for him. There r so many misunderstandings. If my baby dies I’m ganna be sobbing my eyes out

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    ハイス November 24, 2020 2:14 am

    I didn't mean to vote down

    deeyaoii November 24, 2020 2:17 am

    Just because you suffer from mental disorders doesnt excuse you for the things you do. I suffer from mental disorders also you dont see me out here trying to get people raped. I dont think he should die i do think he should get counseling tho

    ハイス November 24, 2020 2:19 am
    Just because you suffer from mental disorders doesnt excuse you for the things you do. I suffer from mental disorders also you dont see me out here trying to get people raped. I dont think he should die i do th... deeyaoii

    Good for you tho...but we're talkin abt chonwo here

    ハイス November 24, 2020 2:21 am
    Good for you tho...but we're talkin abt chonwo here ハイス

    *chowon

    I always knew that I fucked up November 24, 2020 2:24 am
    Just because you suffer from mental disorders doesnt excuse you for the things you do. I suffer from mental disorders also you dont see me out here trying to get people raped. I dont think he should die i do th... deeyaoii

    He has DID a disorder that makes you change personality’s. He can’t control it with his own will due to multiple problems. Including pressure from his family, people who judge him etc, he has multiple people in his body and can’t control them. So far we know he has a personality that makes him do bad stuff. I hope u understand my point

    Maddy November 24, 2020 2:36 am
    *chowon ハイス

    I want to point out that even with serious disorders like DID and schizophrenia, it doesn’t mean you’re entitled to forgiveness from the people you hurt. Even if you couldn’t control your actions you still did them, and the people who were on the receiving end of that shouldn’t be expected to just suck it up. That’s just as bad as saying the person with the disorder deserves nothing.
    That said, I do think Chowon is redeemable, both with friends and/or a good family, therapy, and maybe an s/o down the line. However we can’t just downplay his actions and the feelings of those he hurt because he’s mentally ill. You can acknowledge the hurt someone caused, acknowledge that they aren’t entitled to forgiveness, and still hope for them to get better.

    illuminist November 24, 2020 2:36 am
    He has DID a disorder that makes you change personality’s. He can’t control it with his own will due to multiple problems. Including pressure from his family, people who judge him etc, he has multiple peopl... I always knew that I fucked up

    i saw some people who have it saying it's not a personality, i don't really know how to explain but they are not a personality to some people
    we don't really know if this is for sure did but seems like it
    like you are not wrong i just wanted to add this

    eternalune November 24, 2020 2:38 am
    I want to point out that even with serious disorders like DID and schizophrenia, it doesn’t mean you’re entitled to forgiveness from the people you hurt. Even if you couldn’t control your actions you stil... Maddy

    right like...mental illness explains someones actions but they do not excuse them

    ハイス November 24, 2020 2:58 am
    I want to point out that even with serious disorders like DID and schizophrenia, it doesn’t mean you’re entitled to forgiveness from the people you hurt. Even if you couldn’t control your actions you stil... Maddy

    Yeah you're right.... having an illness is not an excuse for everything that he did.... BUT... if they hurt someone,, it doesn't mean that they don't deserve any forgiveness... I'm just saying that every ppl deserve another chance...we also hurt other ppl so why differ ourselves to him?... he's a human too,,we all make mistakes... ofc he can't die yet.. he still need to make up for everything that he did... you don't need to forgive him cuz it's up to heeso and dojun to decide

    I always knew that I fucked up November 24, 2020 2:59 am

    It literally multiple people in one body to me. Tho it’s just a theory of mine :)

    I always knew that I fucked up November 24, 2020 3:02 pm
    It literally multiple people in one body to me. Tho it’s just a theory of mine :) I always knew that I fucked up

    *has

    Maddy November 27, 2020 9:54 pm
    Yeah you're right.... having an illness is not an excuse for everything that he did.... BUT... if they hurt someone,, it doesn't mean that they don't deserve any forgiveness... I'm just saying that every ppl de... ハイス

    That's what I said, that he isn't entitled to forgiveness. If they opt to forgive him, fantastic! But they shouldn't be demonized if they choose not to.