As someone who’s attempted an overdose, I’m disgusted by y’all who are disregarding ...

Perlita-chan November 25, 2020 7:54 am

As someone who’s attempted an overdose, I’m disgusted by y’all who are disregarding Chowon’s s*icide attempt and acting like it’s what he deserves. Fuck you. The fact that he’s attempted, shows that there is so much more than what meets the surface. That is always the case. Of course, that does NOT by ANY MEANS excuse his actions, but y’all need to grow some fucking hearts to learn to understand those actions. WHY he did them in the first place. It’s like a middle school bully who takes out his anger derived from an abusive home life onto other kids at school. Or a villain in a Shounen anime who has a traumatic childhood. Like COME ON! THIS IS BASIC HUMAN EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE YALL SEEM TO BE LACKING! Do you not see how absolutely heartbreaking it is to go thru a marriage you thought was end game but turns out there was never any love in the first place and it was all an “illusion”???? To think you were actually loved for who you are, but to have never been even considered for a moment despite signing the marriage contract??? To only be loved for your beautiful face and strong omega pheromones??? Like come on! Of course, that does not excuse his past actions, but this leaves room for understanding and for character development. So those of you who talked ill of Chowon’s overdose, fuck you and delete your ableist bullshit.

Responses
    Riya November 25, 2020 7:57 am

    a crimes a crime mate

    Perlita-chan November 25, 2020 8:06 am
    a crimes a crime mate Riya

    Fuck you, you ableist.

    yaoichic November 25, 2020 8:12 am

    Ikr but correct me if I'm wrong that dude tripped over the cable roll....right? Then y did he tell others that Chowon broke his legs that's completely different from what happened. Yeah sure he kidnapped the guy and all the wrongs he's done but when u go around saying someone broke ur legs I'm thinking about they either broke it with a bat, sledge hammer r even stepped on it in the joints not u trying to get away tripped and fell u did that on ur own

    Riya November 25, 2020 8:19 am
    Fuck you, you ableist. Perlita-chan

    You're unfortunately not using that word correctly.

    Perlita-chan November 25, 2020 8:23 am
    Ikr but correct me if I'm wrong that dude tripped over the cable roll....right? Then y did he tell others that Chowon broke his legs that's completely different from what happened. Yeah sure he kidnapped the gu... yaoichic

    Everyone has their reasons. Clearly, we don’t know the full story now that that has been revealed. My best guess is that the assistant misunderstood and thought he was purposely tripped and Chowon didn’t want to deny the accusations becuz no one would believe him since everyone knows his nasty and obsessive attitude and it would make him look bad to deny them, so he went along with them. Also, it’s clear Chowon has remorse, but he clearly doesn’t show it properly, so the best way he could show it was to just accept the accusations and pay all the monetary compensations.

    yaoichic November 25, 2020 8:41 am

    I feel a bit sorry for him though I really do hope that Kyungsoo is the one who helps him change and escape from that dark inner self he's struggling with bcuz u don't know a person r what he's been through until you've walked a mile in his shoe

    Perlita-chan November 25, 2020 8:42 am
    You're unfortunately not using that word correctly. Riya

    I am using that word very perfectly fine. As someone who’s taken psychology and done research on the negative effects of the demonization of criminals, you are very much an ableist and you’re just simply offended by it becuz you refuse to acknowledge it and properly apologize. Never have I excused Chowon’s criminal acts. And 99% of people who agree with me, HAVENT excused them either. You are literally not reading 100% of what people are saying and only read the small percentage to suit your skewed perspective.

    Perlita-chan November 25, 2020 8:43 am
    I feel a bit sorry for him though I really do hope that Kyungsoo is the one who helps him change and escape from that dark inner self he's struggling with bcuz u don't know a person r what he's been through unt... yaoichic

    Exactly! Thank you! Everyone on this planet is like an iceberg. We only ever see the surface and the surface is never the entire size of the iceberg.

    Claud November 25, 2020 9:19 am
    a crimes a crime mate Riya

    Even if he did a “crime” he doesn’t deserve to die. No one does.

    Juha_ni_Doyoon November 25, 2020 10:00 am

    Im actually surprised how so many narrowminded people are here. I dunnow how many comments I replied to and I just eventually stopped because its tiring to make idiots see the point. They have only one point of view and they only judge Chowon as a whole with his mistakes. So disgusting to see people "happy" and "laughin
    I wish we could pin your comment because these heartless fucks needs to learn. Hoping you're feeling better now.

    Claud November 25, 2020 10:03 am
    I feel a bit sorry for him though I really do hope that Kyungsoo is the one who helps him change and escape from that dark inner self he's struggling with bcuz u don't know a person r what he's been through unt... yaoichic

    Exactly. It doesn’t take a person to change in one day, you gotta give him time. It’s so fucked up how people really want him to overdose like how cruel can they be.

    Perlita-chan November 25, 2020 11:01 am
    Im actually surprised how so many narrowminded people are here. I dunnow how many comments I replied to and I just eventually stopped because its tiring to make idiots see the point. They have only one point of... Juha_ni_Doyoon

    There are some ppl who understand, but aren’t willing to believe Chowon will change. I think it’s pretty obvious he will change considering he literally has his own side story, like come on. Use some common sense. Characters wouldn’t have character development if they didn’t get their own spotlight. And then there are some ppl who refuse to forgive Chowon, which is okay. Forgiveness is separate from understanding. You can understand a person’s actions, but that doesn’t mean you can forgive them. Forgiving someone is different to the individual. But there are definitely lots of ppl here who are rudely cheering for Chowon’s overdose and that’s just fucked up. I thank you for understanding and for your encouraging words <3

    Sinner November 25, 2020 12:00 pm

    Well it was not really overdose he grabbed the wrong medicine since he was in a panic:(

    Claud November 25, 2020 2:28 pm
    Well it was not really overdose he grabbed the wrong medicine since he was in a panic:( Sinner

    Yea and it so sad. :( I don’t understand why people wanted him to overdose though like that’s sick

    Riya November 26, 2020 5:54 am
    Even if he did a “crime” he doesn’t deserve to die. No one does. Claud

    My apologies, I quite missed the part where I said he deserved to die, perhaps you could point it out to me?

    Riya November 26, 2020 5:56 am
    I am using that word very perfectly fine. As someone who’s taken psychology and done research on the negative effects of the demonization of criminals, you are very much an ableist and you’re just simply of... Perlita-chan

    So the act of simply pointing out what has in actuality, happened is ableist? And the act of discussion is "being offended". You call others "narrow-minded" and yet you are unable to have a mature discussion without saying "Fuck you ableist" 300 x over. I never said he deserved to die, I never said he deserved to overdose and I never said that it brought me happiness to see that.

    Claud November 26, 2020 8:10 am
    My apologies, I quite missed the part where I said he deserved to die, perhaps you could point it out to me? Riya

    I said people. I never mentioned ur name -_-

    Perlita-chan November 26, 2020 8:27 am
    Well it was not really overdose he grabbed the wrong medicine since he was in a panic:( Sinner

    Whether it was the wrong or right, he OVERDOSED, meaning he intentionally took a shit ton of pills than the recommended for any medication and that is very much an indication of overdose and an attempt. Don’t tell someone who’s overdose what an overdose is

    Perlita-chan November 26, 2020 8:38 am
    So the act of simply pointing out what has in actuality, happened is ableist? And the act of discussion is "being offended". You call others "narrow-minded" and yet you are unable to have a mature discussion wi... Riya

    I can say fuck whenever I want to. Grammar and “proper language” is elitist and racist. So fuck that. And I already explained how your words and phrasing sound ableist. The fact that you are literally demonizing criminals in such a negative way without the ability to acknowledge that a so-called “criminal” can change and does not always represent the crime they committed becuz of things we don’t know. The surface isn’t everything. What we see isn’t the full story. And you keep on repeating the same shit despite me literally repeating myself over 300 fucking times. Your comments give off the vibe that suggest Chowon deserves to die and deserves what he did to himself. Whether you directly said that or not. You’re refusing to see and acknowledge the negative and ableist way you have phrased your comments and are ignoring what a majority of people who side with Chowon are saying, ignoring the mental health aspect of those comments and disrespectfully and ignorantly saying “a cRiMe iS sTiLL a CriMe” like a heartless bastard. Every comment you have posted demonstrates your lack of acknowledgment of what people are explaining that I have literally repeated so many fucking times and only come to save yourself by saying “I dIDnT diReCtLy sAy thAt” or “I kNoW tHerE aRe pEoPLe sAYinG tHat and iM oNLy rEfeRinG tO tHe PeOpLe wHo ArE ExcUsiNg hiS acTiONs”~~ BITCH WHERE?!? Literally 99% of people who side with Chowon have NOT excused him and you are literally saying this heartless bullshit on every comment who isn’t excusing him. You’re literally making yourself the ignorant and disrespectful fool here and only spreading you’re screwed up narrowminded perspective that’s negative and detrimental and hurting people.

    Riya November 26, 2020 10:28 am
    I can say fuck whenever I want to. Grammar and “proper language” is elitist and racist. So fuck that. And I already explained how your words and phrasing sound ableist. The fact that you are literally demon... Perlita-chan

    Respect is not elitist, I did not demonize anyone. Just pointed out facts. I never said people can't change, I come from what people call "the hood", I've seen people go from jailed to business owners. Also, I never reprimanded the use of swear words, just that you shouldn't be swearing and attacking me. The "fuck you" wasn't a general fuck. Ableism is the direct discrimination of a person who is not able-bodied. You are taking power away from the term using it in a context like this. Call out ableism like inaccessibility to even the most common buildings, jokes that involve terms such as "retard", ticks being mocked or the lack of braille on signs, menus, etc.

    The author called his actions crimes, guess she is ableist as well. But thank you for assuming my entire personality over "a crime is a crime"

    Aight fosho girl

    It's been a pleasure Perlita, I'm going to mute, I have an 8 hour rt-PCR lab tomorrow so I'd rather not spend more time replying.

    If you need confirmation from me by the way, so you can sleep at night, I never disagreed with your comments, yes you are correct, it was great to have an understanding regarding Chowon's behaviour and the attempted suicide depicted in the story was painful to see.

    Oh and to reply to the "BITCH WHERE?!!?", many people did delete their comments but when it was first updated, there were many comments who did excuse. Just because you didn't see them, doesn't mean they didn't exist.

    Also, please refrain from creating a binary. I did not appreciate your comment about "people who side with Chowon". There are no sides here and there is no binary, everyone feels a different way about scenes such as this and a box shouldn't be made.

    Again, thank you for the riveting discussion. I wish you all the best in life and meant no harm, neither did I have ill intentions.