He forced himself on him multiple times and cheated on him for years and never gave a fuck about him , sorry do you really think that he loves him? Even if he gets a character development he doesn't deserve a second chance
I completely agree with you. wen xu went through hell after He Zhi Shu died. he is so miserable that he kills himself, and before he dies he sees the image of Zhishu asking if they will leave together after school. He had his redemption.
and the manhua softened things up a lot, in the book, when wenxu starts screaming for Zhishu while being taken by the police, He Zishu goes into despair, begging to die because he cannot bear the pain of his beloved.
Wenxu was an asshole, but people are not statisticians. People change, they get better. and those two suffered too much. I'm sorry for the doctor, but in the end he caused a lot more pain. Zhishu and Wenxu died terribly unhappy and calling out to each other.
you are kidding? wenxu was terribly in love with Zhishu. there is a reason why history has this name. they stayed together for 14 years. in the last 4 that Wenxu started cheating, and effectively became a son of a bitch about 3 years ago when he started keeping Shen and then staying away from home for weeks to be with him. Before that I was always one night stand (still terrible)
Terribly in love? I believe when you r really in love with someone you can't see him hurt and your love doesn't fade away with years . I mean yeah there's always struggles and problems between lovers but beating them ? Raping them ? Not knowing that they're in pain and sick for months? Not only that but having sex partner for 4 years .. bro this ain't love , the only one that was deeply in love here was zhishu
You say he never give a fuck about him. I say that it is not true. For 10 years they had a great relationship. They spend 14 year together. Wenxu Stuart started to cheat in the last 4 and became violent in the last month. zhishu discovered the end of November and did not live to see spring. the story makes it very clear that the first time wenxu assaulted and raped was after Zhishu was diagnosed. maybe you should reread the story? I know I may be sounding an asshole but that is not the intention, it is just that you totally missed the point and you are confusing everything. for 10 the two fell in love and supported each other, the problem started when He was removed from the company he rebuilt with her husband
zhishu finds out * that he was sick * in late November
Realistically speaking, long term relationship like this is bound to experience such problems (adultery). It was also Zhishu's decision to keep the sickness a secret, and yes Wenxu's also at fault for being unaware. I don't have enough knowledge to say what rape is, especially to married couples, so I won't say whether it is or not. Moving on, they wouldn't be married in the first place if they weren't in love, and they won't even reach a decade. They were very much in love (although their 10 years wasn't showed), Wenxu didn't fall out of love nor didn't love Zhishu, he was yearning for love, attention and company (Shen). This also happened to Zhishu, he yearned for Wenxu, and Ziyu was their. They both did the same thing, they both tried to find it from someone, when they have together. They just lacked the proper communication to fix their miscommunication.
In addition, what Zhishu and Ziyu did was also wrong. And what's happening between Ziyu and Zhishu is not love, maybe for Ziyu but to Zhishu, he is yearning for his husband's love. Ziyu also deprived Wenxu from communicating to Zhishu. Ziyu is really unconditionally in love with Wenxu, he didn't want to see Zhishu because he doesn't want his decision to change.
I'm not defending Wenxu's past wrong doings, but just to be clear, Zhishu also did the same.
Before he died:
He didn't know Wenxu was sick.
He didn't know Wenxu was finding a donor for him.
He didn't know Wenxu stopped seeing Shen.
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I get and respect the hate you guys have for Wenxu, and I won't even try to change how you see him, but lemme tell you, do you think the title "10 years where I love you the most" only apply to Zhishu? Cause I don't think so.
Correction to the first paragraph:
Zhishu* is really unconditionally in love with Wenxu, he didn't want to see Wenxu* because he didn't want to change his decision.
I'm glad I wasn't the only one with different understanding to this manhua (づ￣ ³￣)づ
I totallt agree on this.I felt bad for adolph tho that he didn't had the chance to apologize for all the bad things he did to Lewis.i know Adolph was an asshole to Lewis for years but Lewis rly deserves to receive a proper apology at least.My homeboi just ran away believing Aldolph does not love him anymore when adolph was actually rly willing to change this time. Ik I can't defend Adolph. I just hope they rly had talked things out. Their farewell just felt so unresolved.
OMG I cannot believe you guys actually believe wenxu stayed in love with zhisu after cheating. I COMPLETELY agree with you on this. Cheating is a form of breaking that trust and the love that’s build is broken. What wenxu did when you guys say “he’s still madly in love” is SO WRONG in so many places. You guys mentioned that after his death he still loved him but NO he just realized what he lost was really important and the guilt he felt after committing those sins of cheating on zhisu. Once you cheat your love for that person has finally drifted apart. Now, I am not saying that wenxu never loved zhisu cause he did and I’ll give him for but only for 10 years afterwards he stopped loving him FULLY as soon as he started cheating. To the person who said “long term relationship is bound to have this outcome” that’s completely wrong just cause you have been together for so long DOESNT equate to cheating. Just cause you’ve been together for so long doesn’t mean that cheating would be involve. WTF. Anyways, wenxu stopped loving zhisu fully after he started cheating on him. Also, with the “yearning for love” if you truly love your partner you wouldn’t put your schlong in someone else’s bussy. Have a great day y’all love you!!
If his misery was about guilt, Wenxu would fell bad when Chen died by he didn’t give a fuck. And you are treating love not has a feeling, but as a action. Action is a way to express love, but love can exist without it, just like angry. U can be angry with some one and don’t demonstrate. U can love someone and hate at the same time. U can love someone and cheat that person. U can love and be aggressive. Of course that it is not a heath relantionship anymore, but it doesn’t anule the feeling. U never did something u regreat to your love ones? Say that love stop with cheating is just simplify a complexion feeling and see the word with Disney glasses. Real life is not like it. Feelings doesn’t work like it.
RIGHT !!! If you really love someone u wouldn't even look at the others but he had a **lover** for four fucking years and they still say that he is madly in love with him
No what? You cannot love someone full heartedly if you cheat, where are you getting this from? Why would you love someone fully and fuck someone else? How does that make any sense whatsoever? Sure the others make sense but you SURELY cannot love full heartedly and cheat it just contradicts love in its own form. There’s a reason why romantic love is always showcased between 2 people because romantic love is meant to be ONLY for 2 people (unless they have other excuses such as open relationship). So, I don’t know where you’re getting with love and cheat when it just contradicts one another
THIS!!! Omg I don’t understand people who think cheating is okay and you that you’re fully in love with someone and still cheat on them like HUUUOOHHH?
If ever Zhishu lived, I would still want him and Wenxu to get back together. I know everyone thinks that Zhishu deserves better, and by better means Ziyu. But I don't think so, if he deserves better, it's the better version of Wenxu (which came true base on the letter, and some scenes).
I know everyone thinks otherwise, but whatever. ╮(￣▽￣)╭