I just cringe every time I read someone say " come on it was just a hug " or " it should h...

Aevyn December 1, 2020 7:14 am

I just cringe every time I read someone say " come on it was just a hug " or " it should have been Jihyum ".
As someone who had to deal with the person who molested and abused me on regular basis, you cannot image the panic I felt in my guts every time we even made eye contact. I could faint. Not a fun experience. Especially now that I am in a better place. Nu'uh, stay 6 ft apart or you will be 6 ft DEEP.

I do feel sorry for him. Not in a I hope they end up together somehow, but in a, deal with your stuff and get better away from Chiwoo. Jihyun had huge issues, and it wasn't Chiwoo's job to deal with them, or with him.

Love this author for putting a clear line for assault. The assault ships tropes are so popular in BL that you gotta add " plz no rapey relationships " every time you wanna read stuff.... ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭

Responses
    flowerfrog December 3, 2020 12:52 pm

    Yeah I completely agree. I don’t know how people are saying he should’ve ended up with Jihyun

    December 5, 2020 10:03 am

    Just because someone is handsome, does not excuse them of their rotten behaviour. Yes, they may have a tortured past, but it was their choice to follow in those foot steps. It does not give them a free pass nor should it.
    I hated the alternated world scenario because he still acted like an arrogant jerk, and his family history would most likely not change. Their personalities are the same thus the chances would still be there. Blergh

    Aevyn December 6, 2020 7:27 pm
    Just because someone is handsome, does not excuse them of their rotten behaviour. Yes, they may have a tortured past, but it was their choice to follow in those foot steps. It does not give them a free pass nor...

    Literally. If he weren't drawn atractive, you'd see everyone against him since day one. But sure, attractive makes assault okay ig in BL...

    nani December 13, 2020 6:00 am

    i meant to like couldn't agree more these comments actually scare me

    mayihaveacrumbofserotonin December 30, 2020 7:09 am

    IF I COULD JUST FUCKING BUMP THIS