“param can fuck whoever he wants” sure thing but not after accepting to date someone,...

agreed

IKR n it's feels like param doesn't deserve Hwi rn, Hwi r just too precious

okay, first of all... when did they star dating?? lol, i've must have forgot to read a chapter because i don't remember them dating. Hwi asked Param on a date (a single date) they were nothing more than fuck buddys till now, and still, just because he asked for a date doesn't mean they are already a couple. Second of all, childish?? how? He had a crush for a while for Mr Han, then met Hwi, he needs to figure out his own feelings and by the way, Hwi didn't even confess to Param yet. How do you expect him to act consequently if he doesn't know how Hwi really feels?? I also want Param to be with Hwi but hating him just because he is confused about his feelings is not right.

he really doesn’t, I feel so sad for hwi he deserves better, when he’s thinking about asking param’s friend what he likes for their date I honestly wanted to cry

True thoooo!!! He's really srs about it n working so hard, now I think... I hope there's gonna be new character for hwi that gonna be really sweet, smart n deserve for hwi:<

u making me laugh, hwi feelings are OBVIOUS and hwi displayed them for param even more than once. he didn’t just asked param out, he asked param to DATE HIM, dating implies a romantic relationship and well, the feelings behind a dating request are painfully obvious pls. If param has to sort his feelings, first, that doesnt mean he needs to fuck with both to do it, second if he was still confused he could have just took his time to think about it like an adult would have done. But he just accepted lightheaded and yes, choices have consequences and rn param is acting like a child for not even slightly considering it

we all kinda know hwi and param are endgame, but tbh param at least deserves to go through the same shit hwi is getting, he needs to understand what he’s losing

HE DIDN'T CONFESS!!! he didn't say: Param, I like you so much date me. TF
I guess you have and only had super mature relationships and always considered others feelings before your own even if they DIDN'T say how they felt because you are soo emotionally intelligent that you can just tell only by looking at them. ???? what you are saying doesn't make any sense, sorry. And also, did you forget these are Param's first experiences? Of course he is gonna make mistakes tf, like EVERY SINGLE PERSON IN THIS WORLD. You can't expect him to be perfect?? everyone hurts other people, even if they didn't mean it. You obviously never had been in a love triangle because you don't resolve it just sitting and thinking lol. Param's behaviour is not childish, its natural. And I'm not saying all this because I want Param to be with Han, but you can't just hate on him because you wish he only had eyes for Hwi, since the beginning we knew he liked mr.Han, if he has a chance, of course he is going to try something with him tf, like everyone would if they had a chance with their crush. Plus, we saw how after being with Hwi, he felt bad for kissing or whathever with Mr. Han, he does think about Hwi. AND THEY ARE NOT IN A RELATIONSHIP I repeat.

sure thing u ask someone to date u as a friend right?? everything has to be said out loud or it doesn’t count as a confession lol this is ridiculous, idk why u wanna justify param actions so with so much passion but what he’s doing is wrong. u don’t need any dating experience to understand is better to settle down your mind first before accepting to date someone that OBVIOUSLY has feelings for u because even the dumbest human being would understand it, to just going to fuck with someone else the day after. I don’t wish him him to have only eyes for hwi I wish him to not play with his feelings and taking his own actions so lightly because he’s a freaking adult and needs to take responsibilities. He thinks about hwi but still he ended up about to have sex with han, that mean he’s thinking only with his dick and nothing else, and I respect, he has zero excuses for this.

Completely agreed

TRUE

Ridiculous is to think that just because someone asked you on ONE date (because it's going to be their first official date) you can't see other people. I think you are forgetting here that they're not official yet. Plus, you still forget that Param still likes Mr. Han. Yes I'm defending him because yall are hating on him for being confused and be free to experiment with whoever he wants because he just started experiencing sex. Also, Hwi knows that he likes Mr. Han, it's not like he is not aware of it so if he doesn't want Param to fuck with him, why don't just tell him?? cause he is also fully aware that Mr. Han likes Param too and will try something if he has the chance. Stop putting all the blame on Param and making him the bad guy because he is not the only one that is making mistakes. Hwi should be more clear about how he feels.
People goes on dates multiples times and not always they became a couple.
You are making him look like the shitiest person when first of all, he never said he was in love with Hwi or something like that. And yes, he thinks with his dick but we knew that since the beginning but he was getting hard because of Mr. Han, and he wanted to exercise because of Mr. Han, you are forgetting that also.
You should see the situation more objectively... he didn't cheat or lied to Hwi, he had been honest all the time.

Plus, how is he going to settle his mind if he hasn't been with Mr Han at all? Like, how do you expect him to choose one when he has only been with Hwi? Let him experience before having to make a decision.

sorry but these are all bullshits, tell me if u irl would accept to date someone and then go fuck with someone else, if he still crushing on han and was free to REFUSE to date Hwi. The boundary between the sex relationship they had and something more broke in the moment he accepted it, no one pointed a gun to his head and told him to date Hwi, and u keep confusing “going out” and “date” because these are clearly two different things. And don’t try to blame Hwi because he already communicated his feelings to param multiple times, the “but param is naive” card has its own limits too. just because he is the mc doesn’t mean he always need to be justified. They are not teens in heat they are all grown men, param included and if at his age he still doesn’t know how to behave in order to not hurt someone else feelings, feelings of a person he’s supposed to care about tho, then he’s just too dumb or too selfish. Hwi deserves more than to be just the spare wheel param runs to just when he needs it, because for now it’s what hwi role seems to be. He’s disrespect his feelings, if param still wanted to fuck with han okay but just don’t accept to date the person that CLEARLY has feelings for u, that’s called common sense and even a child would understand it

I’m not against him experiencing, but if u wanna experience dont accept a dating proposal, u dont need to be a genius to understand it

Once again, I completely agree.

I'm clearly agreed with u

Okay, I agree that Hwi seems to be the second option but I think Param has genuine feelings for him but also needs to figure out what's going on with Mr. Han, and just because they are adults doesn't mean they can't hurt each other, like... adults act dumb too, they are not 100% responsable and they definitely don't think of others all the time. If they were, there wouldn't be any romcoms lol also I still think that Hwi didn't propose, like, if he did ask Param to be his boyfriend, he would've been more surprised? and he would have said something more than just asking at what time they are going to meet. For me it seems like he was just asking to go on a date... and about what would I do irl, trust me it's not that easy to just make a decision when you like two people and even more if you have actual feelings for both. I've seen the raws, I don't understand korean but judging for what I've seen, Param didn't seem to want it at first but gave in because Han was pushing him and honestly it's a very understandable and normal reaction. I've been in that situation and in the moment, you don't really think you just get carried away. What pisses me off is that you are almost criminalizing Param when he literally did nothing wrong? Like, he didn't cheat on Hwi and I think he's gonna tell Hwi after because he has always been honest with him. You can't put the blame in one person because it's a love triangle, of course things are going to get messy and of course they are going to get hurt and they could've done the things better but like... it's not that deep to hate Param so much lol like... he is not hurting Hwi on purpose, I genuinely think he is not aware that Hwi likes him that much.

never said I hate param, I just said he’s having a questionable behavior that is quite immature and lightheaded considering the struggles he has about his feelings. He really need to wake up and make up his mind, and I think he already had to do it even before accepting Hwi dating proposal, even if he doesn’t know how much Hwi likes him he still knows that he does and that’s enough.
We all know han his a manipulative rat but param told him he was seeing someone the moment before and then the moment after he is about to have sex with him, u can get carried away as much as u want but u need to put a grab on your actions and emotions, especially because his actions in this situation don’t only involve him but also other ppl. He keeps thinking with his dick and nothing else, and that’s his fault

I don't agree with that. He is not thinking with his dick, he likes Han, he has feelings for him too, plus he hasn't seen his true colours yet, he doesn't know that he is a manipulative rat ( I mean, he knows that he was aware of his feelings but nothing more than that). Honestly, I think there's a lack of communication between Hwi and Param, if they sat and talked about their relationship and where are they going with it, things wouldn't be so messy, but also, they just started accepting their feelings, so I guess it's too early? plus they didn't had time to talk things out before all the Mr Han situation happened... I don't like Han but I really don't think Param is acting in the wrong way... I think he is having a totally normal and understandable reaction like... it's not like he made a dick appointment with Mr Han, it really is not like that, things just happened and honestly if I was in his situation, I would've done the same. Humans are impulsive, no matter the age. If he had in mind fuck Han when they met I would be mad at him but it's not the situation. With this, I'm not saying he did the right thing, I think he is going to feel guilty afterwards which is totally understandable too but I don't think his behavior is childish or immature.