That’s where I’m at right now, relationship aside...y’all were friends and in each other’s lives for so long. Okay it is so painful and sucks that the relationship ending basically out for their control but why not be able to still have a friendship or be kind and open annnnnd understanding with each other. The way it’s going down is trash. And the new boyfriend saying he should have just died...the actual fuck was that. Be a supportive boyfriend like you apparently were the whole five years you were trying to be sucked down by YOUR bow boyfriend.
exactly my point.Its honestly extremely annoying.
Almost as annoying as all my autocorrected words. Reading my comment was cringe worthy for that reason hahaha. Glad you were able to decipher. Hahaha
Stillllll bitter about all this shit though, it’s traumatic for those two who were massive parts of each other whole life. And poof five years and it’s gone. Like I said I’m not just talking about their intimate relationship, it’s more than that to me. Just a lot of unfair and unnecessary dynamics playing out. I’m assuming the now boyfriend always had feelings for the ex and was just keeping close and he ended up getting his chance.
Lol no worries, I've been a victim of autocorrect too in the past
yep, i just find the whole behavior inexcusable. He just has a shitty personality, I can't think of any other possible reason on why he acted that way.
I was, no lie, sick to my stomach. I just couldnt help but imagine sitting there after an experience like that and him being the first person I wanna see and looking at him holding his lovers hand and comforting him and I’m like wtf!!! It’s been five years for you but this is brand spanking new for me. I will say I’m proud of the ex for reassuring his now boyfriend but how he isn’t just flat out being like “hey it’s over. I will always love you and I waited and I never thought you were coming back, I couldnt keep my life stuck like that. There will always be a part of me that is yours but i let a future of us go and I can’t just go back to that after I’ve built this life, I’m happy. I love my boyfriend now and I hope in time we will be able to piece together a relationship that’s healthy for both of our lives and where we’re headed” or some shit like that (insert eye roll because who really knows what is best to say). Like healthy conversation with closure, still painful but progressive. For me this is just a lot of painful shit all around for everyone involved. I don’t have the mental capacity to muster through the rest
I get what you mean, and honestly this affected me too. The night i read this i couldn't even sleep because i kept thinking on how unfair the whole thing is. I think I'm not gonna keep reading it until it's complete because my heart can't take it
Taejung tried so hard to start a new life and do something about himself that he ended up thinking only about himself. He acts as if he was the only one in pain and by treating the mc like that he just makes him feel like an inconvenience that should have died instead like he was used to believing he did all these years. Honestly i can't help but think that's what he actually feels, that everything he built was ruined because his ex showed up alive because he can't deal with this. Honestly i find him selfish because the only solution to this he found, was treating his ex like crap as if all these years they spent together, first as friends, meant nothing to him. I'm not saying that he has to get together with him, but a bit of fucking respect, or some time to mend the whole thing and help in order for the mc to move on would be appreciated and actually something that someone who actually cared about mc would do. But in the end, all he cared about was feeling "better", and that's what his new lover gave to him.He doesn't care about how the mc feels as long as he himself feels better. Mc couldn't provide him that since, how dare he! He got into an accident, and apparently to him, he deserves such treatment.