fucking hate it when I'm reading great BL with potential relationship development that is ...

you're reading yaoi. Ofc you're fetishising MLM.

Oh no the cursed commenter is back

you should read our convo below. They fr just- oh lord tried to correct a jap person on jap terms and excuse fetishizing by being gay so its okay and still got called out by three people with evidence and refuses to admit they are wrong :? smh weirdo

according to the dictionary:
make (something) the object of a sexual fetish.
have an excessive and irrational commitment to or obsession with (something).
fetish definition, by itself:
a form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to an abnormal degree to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body, etc.
these are the only definitions. anyone who tries to tell you otherwise is uneducated.

things that are genuinely harmful to mlm:
claiming only mlm may enjoy mlm media, claiming trans men are not real men and therefore cannot enjoy mlm media, stereotyping real-life mlm

DON'T:

police how others enjoy mlm media, talk over mlm when they tell you bl is harmless and anyone can enjoy mlm smut

Then is shoujo a fetishization of hetero relationships? Both are unrealistic and if someone actually believes gay relationships are really like that then they shouldn't be on this site.

exactly bruh like is reading action fetishizing action????

fuzakeru na

Reminder that the person I'm mentioning also said manhwas were exactly the same as 'yaoi' (it's BL fuckwad)

I saw the whole clowning session lol.
Btw ik you're japanese yourself and I'm on your side but maybe you should use jpn as an abbreviation instead since "jap" has somewhat become an ethnic slur due to its use in western media in the last century. I really am not trying to police you so I'm sorry if i come across as nosy

ABSOLUTELY. READING PORN IS FETISHISING RELATIONSHIPS REGARDLESS OF SEXUAL ORIENTATION. Be they straight, gay or lesbian- still fetishising.

nah it's gucci I appreciate your the way you put your comment in a polite manner and it puts a smile on my face. I'm actually Malay too but I've been on and off in Shibuya but this whole covid thingy got me stuck here. I'm supposed to be all the way in Singapore. Also for that dumb clown SIAL PUKIMAK KAU MAMPOS or shinjimae :)

Absolute troll lol

I'm done honestly an hour of discourse, several people calling you out with adequate simplified evidence meant not to humiliate you but to correct you (but let's be real we dropped the kind ethics long ago now it's just shut your pea brain up baka) and you still calling BL, Shoujo, Yuri fetishizing. IT IS NOT FETISHIZING UNLESS THE READER MAKES IT FETISHIZING. ANY MOVIE THAT HAS SEX SCENES LIKE AFTER OR THE KISSING BOOTH IS CENSORED OR HAS SUGGESTIVE CONTENT BUT IT DOESN'T MAKE IT PORN. IT IS UP TO THE WATCHER/READER ON ITS INTEPRETATION AND THIS BL AIN'T IT BOYOOOO.

thanks, I'm glad I live in your head rent free seeing as you remember me from months ago

Thanks for understanding. Also :// I'm so done with covid too

Embarassing not a malaysian thinking she japanese to justify using japanese terms in western society LMAOOOOO go to school gurl

Lmao what. i just saw your comments now, how am i gonna keep up with a troll for months, thats some individuality complex youve got

still obsessed with me

I'm mixed race fucker. Malays are spread out in the malayan archipelago from indonesia to singapore weirdo. Fucking xenophobic. You ain't even Japanese. You all cap and bullshit pretending to be Japanese just so you can try to slide your way out of this.

I'm genderfluid fucker she/her ain't the default