Not them pretending to be Japanese, misgendering me thinking she/her is the default, xenophobic, idiot that thinks Malay people are form Malaysia(they originated from Indonesia, there a different types of Malays like Boyanese and Javanese), correcting a Japanese person living in Japan practically surrounded with the word BL while saying they're a jap person living in the uk so they're trying to correct me on the westerners pov when they literally like minute ago tried to say nO yAoi is gAy sEx oNly fEtishIZe BrR and several foreigners telling that person it ain't it :/
they said this...
"omggg EMBARASSSINGGGGG you don't even know the genres
Yaoi = gay romance + gay sex
Shounen-ai = gay romance + no sex
Shota = boy kid + pedo stuff
Girl go learn the genres a bit more instead of embarassing yourself here tryna correct their definition Awwwww someone a wittle angwyyy If you mad just leave lmao no one stopping you"
and now they're saying they're a jp person living in the UK so they're trying to correct me on the western pov despite several westerners saying no hunny it is not it. Them misgendering me, thinking all malay people are from Malaysia ( they originated from Indonesia before Malays started to separate into different dialects and beliefs like Boyanese and Javanese) despite me saying I'm Jp living in Shibuya and having a Malay family in Singapore like stfu. Not them calling me the colonizer when they CLAIM to be jp. I'm part colonizer bitcheth but you don't see me calling Family Guy porn and hey let's make it fap material aye.
しんじまえ :)
Youre right but you got one thing wrong. Shounen Ai is actually a romance that works with age play/rlly big age gaps. So like minors and adults.
yea that too
They didn’t even bring up that ‘fact’ until I said that I was Japanese and they didn’t even said they were gay until another person said that they were gay when I said that idiot was fetishizing.
Chain of even summarized from the deleted topic:
-when is the sex
-three people saying no honey it ain't it just enjoy the plot
-them saying reading BL/GL/shounen is fetishizing
-refuses to read documented evidence
-me saying they're fetishizing mlm
-them saying no I'm not I'm mlm too
-an mlm calling them out
-them saying I don't know what 'yaoi' 'shounen ai' means despite me writing three paragraphs of eveidence with the correct definition and explanation along with some Jp translation and repeatedly asking them to stop correcting me because I am japanese and I live in Shibuya with my aunt and she's a fucking BL artist
-them also loosely using p*dophilia when trying to explain something that nothing to do with the previous convo
-me trying to explain sex will def happen later in the story but respect the author and their plot
-them talking about r*pe and how all BL is the same and they're all for them to fap with
-them again using r*pe topics with tw and not realizing I am a victim of sexual harrasment and p*dophilia and so could others
-me giving more evidence and cussing very VERY BAD PROFANITIES that could get me into serious trouble if that person was Jp but obv they're cap and they didn't budge
-Them suddenly claiming to be jp but they're living in the uk yet still had to google what shounen ai really means despite them CONFIDENTLY claiming the 'correct' definitions awhile ago
-Me agreeing with a fellow moot and saying I'm mixed and I'm Malay too but I'm supposed to be in Singapore( small talk hehe)
-Them saying "Embarassing not a malaysian thinking she japanese to justify using japanese terms in western society LMAOOOOO go to school gurlll"
-me confused because I literally spoke to them in Japanese, said I was Jp and lived in Shibuya since I was three SEVERAL TIMES
-Them calling me a colonizer despite them claiming to be Jp
-Me saying they're dumb if they think all Malays are from Malaysia because they originated from Indonesia before splitting into different dialects and cultural context like Javanese and Boyanese which shows how dumb they are when they brought up wikipedia info bout Jp colonization previously and had the audacity to ask me to learn history. I STUDIED HISTORY FOR SIX YEARS FUCKWAD AND THEY GOT THEIR INFO OFF WIKEPEDIA JESUS
done. They've been RATIOTED AND NOW I HAVE NEW FRIENDS THAT WERE ORIGINALLY STRANGERS HELPING ME.
It's the racism, carelessness, ignorance, perversion, idiocy, ego for me
chile fucker if you reading this 黙れ :)
Same feeling here. It is shitty to reduce a good story plot or development just down to sex.
Yaoi doesn't mean smut all the time. It just means imo a visible physical interaction. Not like fucking all the time and i'm annoyed of readers if they comment so.
I agree. Those kinds of comments are very annoying, especially when it comes to stuff like sharpe and rabbit, where the slow burn is what makes it so exciting. On the other hand tho I don’t think it’s an issue if someone enjoys smut in yaoi. I do too lol. It’s just that you gotta learn to appreciate truly good plots and separate them from the stuff you read for smut. You gottra read those with a whole different mindset lmao.
so true, I love fluff and I'm over the moon if there is smut but if not then it's gucci. However, I need to point out to anyone that thinks I'm talking about all readers that enjoy smut are wrong. What was wrong was that the person was fetishizing mlm, disrespecting the genre, misgendering(so fucking pissed about this), using triggering topics without relation to context or trigger warning( ik this is an illegal site but at least be compassionate), lying, attempting to correct several people despite being given several explanations with evidence. But yes, reading the slow burn is completely different from the porno plots with alot of smut and that's perfectly okay. Just don't assume all mlm relationships are this toxic like represented in some BL or mlm are okay with rape( ISTG I HAVE DISCOURSED WITH SOMEONE THAT ONCE SAID "GAYS LIKE RAPING EACH OTHER BECAUSE I READ IT IN BL") also don't disrespect my fellow fujo/fudans/shoujo readers by calling them fetishizers:/ Thanks for putting your opinion in a nice way :3
Please don't say "jap" that's a slur to Japanese people... just say jpn or Japanese.
Will do
I use this word unconciously when I rage type sometimes please don't be like me gomene sorry :(
Y'all ARE STILL TALKING? TF ARE YOU TRYING TO GET THROUGH?? MAN THIS IS SO STUPID one side of this Agreement can wait for the"sex" and the other can just enjoy the benefits of actual love. Like there is literally no reason to keep talking shit to each other when you don't need to. (︶︿︶)＝凸
can you like be quiet and stomp your feet elsewhere. This convo was like weeks ago, literally everyone forgot about it. We established fetishization of mlm is not okay and what genres were outdated but you just *SIGH* shhh
fucking hate it when I'm reading great BL with potential relationship development that is very interesting or realistic but someone comes and asks "so when y'all gonna fuck?" This is like so shitty. Fr making us BL readers look like we're fetishizing when we've spent so much time trying to prove that we just enjoy this genre .-.