Hohoho...I once had that thought about the BATA...a long time ago when I was young and naive and still looking at girly ukes...but then soon, it got boring so I wanted to try more male looking ones, and then manly ones, and then finally I picked up an old manga I had turned down because it was BARA and suddenly I was all about the BARA. give it time. You will converted.
Dont worry, thats just your taste.
If you dont like, you dont like it.
Try to read some bara after some months though, I didn't like it either some time ago.
I still dont find it specially arousing, but I started to really enjoy it after a while. Its funny and kinda cute (with the perspective that not only young, perfectly shaved gorgeoys men can love and have sex)
You'll change your opinion of bara once you read Naono Bohra's works :3 It's recommended by many fujoshis trust me

Sorry this is the first time I read bara,honestly I really not in to it...my head really hurts and I really gonna puke.....