
True but no going lie, it does bother me that everyone slut-shames guys/girls who sleep around but is somehow ok with the MC doing it in all these harem stories. Like, even the MCs disapprove in a lot of stories but then they suddenly decide it's okay for them to do it when it's convenient. "They didn't have a choice" yada yada

So it's ok to sleep around if u are sincere about it? No I dont think so. Of course i have no problem with polyamory but to me it doesnt look like the MLs like her having relationships with other men.
To be honest I'm just confused why it's ok for FL to have a poly relationship but for black hair girl its seen as her not being satisfied with only one man. It feels a bit like double standards.

I understand but for the black haired girl, none of the boys she was playing around with knew about each other and she was basically sleeping behind all their backs. For ML, those are her concubines so they all know about each other and are in a sense married. The reason none of the ML sleep with each other is because they only like the FL, not each other. So yes, they're polyamorous but they're the time where theyre dating the FL and not each other. It's bad when everyone is in the dark and feel betrayed. That's why FL didnt like Black haired girl, and I personally don't believe she's being a hypocrite. The whole reason she didnt like the black haired girl was because she was using them for her own gain and pretended to be only with one person, and none of the boys she was fooling around with knew about each other. Plus, I might be wrong but I think FL is onlysleeping with Nadrika and that's it.
Our FL is kind of a hypocrite, at the start of the story she is disgusted by Yurieal(I dont know her name, you know the black hair one) for not being satisfied with only one man and calls her selfish.But is she not doing the exact same thing?
Dont get me wrong I like the story but I'm reading for all the MLs not the FL