I am so mad at miss Kim rn

Sonneth December 6, 2020 2:43 pm

Your ex husband is in the past, and you should focus on leaving you inferiority complex behind. Your age gap shouldn't stop you from being happy (as long as it's legal, LOL).
Also, Jihoo is prob one of the sexiest MCs that I've ever seen.

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    Ainekomoishuu December 6, 2020 5:42 pm

    Easy to say when u are not in her place.

    William Shakespeare December 6, 2020 6:38 pm
    Easy to say when u are not in her place. Ainekomoishuu

    Well said.

    Sonneth December 6, 2020 8:13 pm
    Easy to say when u are not in her place. Ainekomoishuu

    If I were in her place, someone should tell me the same. At times we need to hear things in order to close circles.
    Also, she needs to work on learning and leaving her past behind, and that's a fact in everyone's life, either we are in this position or going through other hardships. That's the only way to live free, isn't it?

    Ainekomoishuu December 7, 2020 8:29 am
    If I were in her place, someone should tell me the same. At times we need to hear things in order to close circles.Also, she needs to work on learning and leaving her past behind, and that's a fact in everyone'... Sonneth

    Yeah. But i doubt she has many close friends to share such things with. Often when two people are in a relationship, they don't interact much with friends. They are closest to each other in fact. And she is an introvert and too blinded to see how her ex-husband manipulated her so she cannot survive without him. I mean, how the hell did she accept to live at home when he didn't so much as thank her for doing all the housework is a mystery to me.
    Sure housework is a lot to keep u engaged all day but u still find free time when u want to work or do something.
    I really admire her(being her) for being able to leave him and come out of that marriage.
    She needs to do a lot of self reflection to understand her inferiority complex coz she doesn't have many people around her who can see it and tell her that she's worth it.
    Such people find it hard to believe their own worth

    Sonneth December 7, 2020 11:28 am
    Yeah. But i doubt she has many close friends to share such things with. Often when two people are in a relationship, they don't interact much with friends. They are closest to each other in fact. And she is an ... Ainekomoishuu

    True, true. I agree with you. And, I can only say that peep at times make the weirdest of decisions... her ex may not have been a jerk all his life, and seriously, good peep accept energetic vampires in their lives all the time.

    Silth December 7, 2020 1:31 pm
    Yeah. But i doubt she has many close friends to share such things with. Often when two people are in a relationship, they don't interact much with friends. They are closest to each other in fact. And she is an ... Ainekomoishuu

    Yeah, I'd also say he pretty much isolated her: she asked her to quit her job and stay at home, he took her car etc. so that man was basically everything in her life.

    Sonneth December 7, 2020 4:41 pm
    Yeah, I'd also say he pretty much isolated her: she asked her to quit her job and stay at home, he took her car etc. so that man was basically everything in her life. Silth

    It's true, isolation is one of the best ways to keep someone under control, and it's hard... I've seen women go through this type of vicious circle and it's only through decision after decision, fight after fight against their own fears that many make it out of it.
    Abuse sucks, and abuse is not love under any circumstance.

    William Shakespeare December 7, 2020 11:02 pm
    It's true, isolation is one of the best ways to keep someone under control, and it's hard... I've seen women go through this type of vicious circle and it's only through decision after decision, fight after fig... Sonneth

    You know abuse and trauma are bad but here you are judging the MC for having them. Lmaooo

    Sonneth December 7, 2020 11:07 pm
    You know abuse and trauma are bad but here you are judging the MC for having them. Lmaooo William Shakespeare

    "Judging" a comic character, sure, champ!

    Also... we all are having a normal discussion, exchanging points of view and learning from our differences... and here you are, judging me on the fact that according to you I'm the judging one #SureSure
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    William Shakespeare December 7, 2020 11:59 pm
    "Judging" a comic character, sure, champ!Also... we all are having a normal discussion, exchanging points of view and learning from our differences... and here you are, judging me on the fact that according to ... Sonneth

    "A comic character" yet here you are saying "If I were in her place" as if she's a real person and you are telling a fictional character what to do, i.e. "you should focus on leaving your inferiority complex behind" as if she's a real person. Suuure ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭

    Sonneth December 8, 2020 3:49 am
    "A comic character" yet here you are saying "If I were in her place" as if she's a real person and you are telling a fictional character what to do, i.e. "you should focus on leaving your inferiority complex be... William Shakespeare

    That, Mr. Shakespeare, was a quote of a response I gave to a person who referenced what I'd do if I were in their place.
    And yes, we read stories and develop (and share at times) fictional points of view based on fictional characters. I don't think you can judge a fictional character... bc... you know, they don't exist.
    Anyway, I'm giving up with you. I'll drop this convo and keep on with my life, you'll probably respond once more or so and then keep on with your life too, so, bye!

    Cherry December 12, 2020 6:16 pm
    "A comic character" yet here you are saying "If I were in her place" as if she's a real person and you are telling a fictional character what to do, i.e. "you should focus on leaving your inferiority complex be... William Shakespeare

    Is that so wrong tho? I mean i also kind of sometimes imagine what I would do if i was in some character's place. I mean I have kinda learned quite some bit the most important one i've learned is a coin has two sides. Uh can be villain in someone's life but in someone else's u might be the hero.

    William Shakespeare December 13, 2020 12:01 am
    Is that so wrong tho? I mean i also kind of sometimes imagine what I would do if i was in some character's place. I mean I have kinda learned quite some bit the most important one i've learned is a coin has two... Cherry

    That man was saying Seoha is a fictional character when I said he was judging her. So I said she's just a fictional character so why say "if I were in her place" or "I am so mad at miss Kim rn".

    Imagine being mad at a fictional character, which is something that doesn't exist. (that he himself said is fictional, putting back words in his own mouth)

    Sonneth December 13, 2020 2:01 am
    Is that so wrong tho? I mean i also kind of sometimes imagine what I would do if i was in some character's place. I mean I have kinda learned quite some bit the most important one i've learned is a coin has two... Cherry

    Cherry, sorry, William maturely blocked so I'm responding to you to get this out of my chest.

    Gosh, William, you are so tiring.
    And... I've no idea why you assumed that I'm a man. Your approach is wrong in so many levels that I couldn't get through to have a healthy discussion with you.
    I like to give my opinion and hear others opinions as well -bc hearing different POV is interesting- but you just go and judge, and criticize, and attack.
    Gosh... really, you are so tiring.

    Cherry December 13, 2020 9:22 am

    So i kinda get both of ur opinion and uh know uh both are just giving ur own opinions and many times there are clash when different opinions meet. So my point is shall we end the clash over here? ( ̄∇ ̄")

    Sonneth December 13, 2020 4:22 pm
    So i kinda get both of ur opinion and uh know uh both are just giving ur own opinions and many times there are clash when different opinions meet. So my point is shall we end the clash over here? ( ̄∇ ̄") Cherry

    I don't tend to clash, I like to hear opinions in general. Judgement and attacks is the part that I'm against.
    Yeah, you are right! I dropped it a while ago and dunno why I got so mad that I took it back yesterday, my bad!
    I agree with you, let's end it here!
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    Cherry December 13, 2020 5:40 pm
    I don't tend to clash, I like to hear opinions in general. Judgement and attacks is the part that I'm against.Yeah, you are right! I dropped it a while ago and dunno why I got so mad that I took it back yesterd... Sonneth

    I hope I didn't say anything unnecessary and have a nice day (or night) ahead

    Cherry December 13, 2020 5:40 pm
    I hope I didn't say anything unnecessary and have a nice day (or night) ahead Cherry

    ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ノ~

    Sonneth December 13, 2020 7:24 pm
    I hope I didn't say anything unnecessary and have a nice day (or night) ahead Cherry

    You didn't!
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