she’s fangirling, she doesn’t have the desire/lust or the love romantically. she loves abel as a SON and as an IDOL for her. she doesn’t have the interest you’re thinking about ffs
and the abel that was on the book was already a man, i think. but seeing the character u love the most and admire the most as a child just wanna makes you-
She doesn’t desire or lust after him... he’s a kid.
If I was the dad, I'd be scared for my child too.
If you're not familiar with the concept of fangirling, it could definitely pass as being predatory
Don't try to sugar coat the fact that she's a stalker even if she doesn't see him romantically or sexually someone watching your son and sending expensive gifts is creepy. There's no way around that, it's okay because of the current situation where Abel accepts her but if that attention wasn't wanted that's creepy and unnerving.
Right?
Abel isn't even an idol, a hero or the duke yet. He is virtually invisible. You could say that he's just some rich guys kid and that's the end of it. Why would you idolize that?
It's suspicious when you think about it guys. Why would somebody purposely send gifts, make handmade handkerchiefs and follow somebody else's son around?
It's shady af.
look at it from a non biased point of view. the way it would look like to others. she’s an adult woman, who followed and stalked a CHILD she DOESNT know or have ANY relations to. she found him, made and sent him gifts and now she married into the family to get closer to him. some of the shit she did is inexcusable, but i understand she’s not romantically interested in him. still, HOW is she going to explain that to his father??
i agree 100%
people can adore anyone and she didn’t even planned on getting married to his father and was only supposed to support the child and she doesn’t clearly have an ill intention towards abel
That's not the point, the point is even if you don't have I'll intentions, stalking someone is creepy and her feelings of admiration can be perceived as something else. The Duke assuming and marrying her was his own carelessness but we wasn't even talking about that we was talking about the female and her actions and how in different situations and point of views that shit is not okay. Like how would you feel if you found out someone was stalking you and sent you presents or your younger siblings, that's some sus shit. Just because you have pure intentions doesn't mean you're not making others uncomfortable for example, religious people forcing their ideals on others. They can have good intentions and just want to share their thoughts and love about their religion but if the other is not religious that can be pretty fucking uncomfortable
i think she should be honest lol this is just causing unnecessary troubles. i can’t imagine how upset she will be when she finds out the diamond mine was sold for her dowry bc the duke does not want another man’s money. also.... this is a bit awkward. how is she going to explain to a GROWN ASS FATHER that she knew of his child before marrying him & even made him an embroided hankerchief and expensive sword? no offense, but taking interest in a young child is something a predator would do. tbh id probably kick her to the curb. she’s nice but... what she does/did is fucking CREEPY.