I dont see what's wrong with age gaps, if they start dating after both parties are legal. Ur tweaking bruh ┑(￣Д ￣)┍
Kinda agree. i've never really been into age gaps.
like most times they were just now being born and u were alr 16, 18, 25??
like ew ╥﹏╥
If the feeling's mutual, nothing is wrong with age gap.It's true that for a 15-16 year age gap,the younger one was nothing but a newborn while the elder one became adult.It's wrong when one of them is minor.
But here both of them are adults.It's not like a 20 year uncle Shu started a relationship with 4 years redhead!They started when none of them was to be considered as a child or minor.
Ik that, I'm just saying that my preference for reading or relationships in general is around the same age.
But irl if they r both an adult i can't do anything abt it. There's this one show where this 18 or 19yo was dating this 50yo with 3 kids. Nothing we can do abt it (parents tried having a say in it) but still, i mean as long as they're an adult?? Ig it's ok. But still age gaps aren't my personal cup of tea (⊙…⊙ )
Oh woops. I responded to the wrong... *sigh*
I hate myself lol. I didn't even see that u were replying to me
The age gap between two people are important even if they are legal in a relationship. Just think about it objectivly. A 16 year age gap means one of them will most likely die much earlier than the other. If you are serious about a relationship you need to think about the future too. Nobody is a saint. People have
needs. Love can't get over everything.
As you have mentioned age,I want to ask you a question then.Suppose two people are dating in their early 20's,they married maybe in 7-8 years.Does that mean they will have a long loving life ahead? Accidents do occur,either of them or even both of them can face some harsh realities.They can die even when they are young.
So how should a person think when he is being serious about their relationship?!
My friend is 19,his bf was 21,he died last year in a car accident.People do die young!!
by that logic you apparently can’t continue dating somebody who suddenly gets cancer or something
your logic is flawed. just say you hate couple that aren’t to your ideals
Its just my personal preference and there's a power dynamic and Age gap fine and all if you're an adult but I don't like it when its over 10 years, i think its...sorry just wrong..I know its fiction and i can differentiate it, but speaking abt irl examples since some brought it up, I personally could never look at someone who's 10 y younger than me and think "wow uhmm yES" cause there's so much development that still needs to happen AND that being said, age gap between them aside, they had no chemistry. Pan never showed interest and there was this typical power dynamic i dislike it feels like pan just used the redhair guy and the redhair guy just had an admiration for a senpai yada yada, i don't like them, no chemistry, age gap, idk very problematic - besides if you disagree with me and like them, that's fine too i don't tell u what to like or dislike i just stated my opinion so I will respect others too and only ask you to respect mine as well :3
'Your logic is flawed' . That sentence doesn't prove anything because relationships are not stable things. Basically all relationships are 'flawed'. People start to relationships to hope it will last long. As the time passes one of them will start hold the other one back. Do you think at that point both of them would be happy ? I am not against it just go ahead and date someone 16 years older than you. When they die before you , you will be the one suffering. 'Love' you say. Bruh just be realistic
I really dont like the cpl at all idk but the age difference is too much, how old is he there? 20??? and how old is the redhead there? 2-4? like YIKES
a big no from me, sorry but i looove the other cpls but this cpl is just pissing meoff, Not only the age gap is yikes, but also they have no chemistry whatsoever if you ask me.