i'm so sorry that you had to go through it. i'm a bit more lucky that both my parents love me in their own way. even tho my mom didnt took my side when i said i dont like that the stepfather touch my butt (was 9 back then). since i left thailand to live with my mom my dad sometimes send me letters and will call at times. after my whole life waiting to be told that they love me i finally got to hear that my dad loves me on my 29th birthday TT^TT.... i don't think i was being used as a tool to get back at each other. but i think my uncle is trying to use me as a tool for the inheritance since i get the stuff that is supposed to be my mom's ... cuz she is dead so those stuff goes to me
Well that's nice but be careful with that uncle my father had a other family before me and now he has another one so that's why I just lost interest in him all I ever need will be a mother who loves me being me
he tried to brainwash me into thinking that my aunt only love my aunt, my aunt and cousins are bad... but when i now learn about what is going on on my aunts and cousins situation is different it like everything my uncle and his wife have been telling me werent the whole truth. he even went to court to get her house. like the dude trying to sue his own sister for a house.... and its obvious that my uncle the fav child of my grandma... but it feels like my uncle and his wife is trying to keep me away from my aunt and my cousins for some reason. they tried to adopt me before but my dad said no to that even tho my mom said alright ...
I know it he is just a piece of shit and I know because when a dad leaves and doesn't care about there kid of course he just want something else like with my dad huh he ded to me after trying to frame my mom on how she change her phone number and posting on Facebook how he was searching for me and other people on social media were like find this kid and reunite them like no he just lying my mom never changed her phone number since I was born and she tried to keep in contact she also told me when I was younger I went to her and said I don't believe in my dad anymore he breaks all my promises