The bottom has always been into bdsm. His trauma is because his ex(?) Didn't stop when he wanted to. Bdsm is something both partners have to consent to and have a safe word when to stop. The ex didn't stop and therefore turned into assault. That's the trauma
Gosh this happened to my friend. His bf was doing some extreme bdsm that he basically manipulated him into and did it unsafely without a safeword. He got scars after that, it was so traumatic. I feel so bad for Chris, I’ve seen how something like that can affect someone
Im so sorry to hear that! I hope your friend is doing okay
I wish I knew. I had only internet connection to him and he went MIA few months ago. I’m still worried but I have no way to contact him
So. The top is doing things he's not into just to get some with the bottom. And the bottom is doing things just to let it out on someone bc of his trauma. That's... fucked up but more interesting than i thought.