trying to date someone who is obviously monogamous and also has trust issues when you’re...

Wait, how is he poly? He's just doing porn videos,it's a job not another relationship

Sex work is polygamy,,having relations of any sexual nature with multiple ppl while in a relationship is polygamy

But he could be monogamus but just does sex work. Like if he was really poly, wouldn't he be with other people outside his work AND beside the uke? I'm just confused, since I thought polygamy is when you want to have multiple partners either in a single relationship or just open relationship

he’s with ppl during his work which is still poly if he’s looking to be in a relationship and have sex with others,for work or not, it’s still a sexual relationship with outsiders of his romantic relationship,,if he wasn’t poly he would quit his job to be with the mc but he probably isn’t cuz that’s not his assumed presentation

My entire point is that the mc being in a relationship with the ml (if he keeps his job)would mean that the relationship would be an open one,,which isn’t monogamous :))

He ain't poly. It's a work.

being in a relationship and having sex with others is poly,,him doing sex work isn’t poly by itself tho

Polygamy (from Late Greek πολυγαμία, polygamía, "state of marriage to many spouses") is the practice of marrying multiple spouses. When a man is married to more than one wife at the same time, sociologists call this polygyny. When a woman is married to more than one husband at a time, it is called polyandry.

Duh, you even don't know what the term means.
Btw sex work is just work. Like any other job. Those are your coworkers, not you relationship partners.

bruh that’s literally ONE definition of the term,,also that definition implies that polygamy is ONLY marriage related which it isn’t,,polygamy in modern terms is having intimate relations with multiple people with consent,,an open relationship is sexual polygamy,,or non-monogamous,,which he would have to have if he were to keep his job and date the mc

Polyamory (from Greek πολύ poly, "many, several", and Latin amor, "love") is the practice of, or desire for, intimate relationships with more than one partner, with the informed consent of all partners involved.[1][2] It has been described as "consensual, ethical, and responsible non-monogamy".[3][4][5] People who identify as polyamorous may believe in an open relationship with a conscious management of jealousy and reject the view that sexual and relational exclusivity are necessary for deep, committed, long-term loving relationships.[6][7] Others prefer to restrict their sexual activity to only members of the group. The latter type of closed polyamorous relationship is usually referred to as polyfidelity.[8][9]

You can’t be in a monogamous relationship and have sex with other ppl at the same time,,work or not ur still having intimate sexual relations with other people

yes? This is what I’ve been saying this whole time

polyamory is just polygamy without legal records..is that what ur trying to say??im confused

okay I understand I used a different term,,but my point still stands,,his relationship will have to be non monogamous if he keeps his job solely because of how monogamy and polyamory work

But he has a zero connection to his work partners, so it can't be a polyamory also. He would need to fuk them outside of his job to have any other kind of relationship with them.