I didnt feel comfortable with this part😒when somebody says to stop you should he was fe...

jessi December 17, 2020 10:04 pm

I didnt feel comfortable with this partwhen somebody says to stop you should he was feeling afraid more than pleasure

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    Moni December 17, 2020 10:20 pm
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    Not the belt

    Astrid December 17, 2020 10:44 pm

    Some people have a kink for being forced. So they will say things like “Stop” or “No more.” However in reality they don’t really want it to stop. It’s more accurate to say that they think it’s “Too much.” But not in a bad way. That’s why when it comes to a dominant and submissive relationship safe words and gestures are incredibly important. I think he didn’t actually want to stop but just felt overwhelmed from the humiliation, exhibitionism, and pleasure.

    As someone who is interested in BDSM I believe the best system is the red, yellow, and green system. It’s perfect for when the partner just wants to slow down a bit rather than stop completely. Safewords can kill the mood because the other will feel bad for going too far.

    I’m explaining this to you because yaoi has a lot of BDSM elements that may not be obvious at first glance. For example, you may see rape a lot. Depending on its use it is more of a fantasy than actual scenario they wish to happen. They just like the forced nature of the situation. So when an author draws it they either add it for the story or they think it’s hot.

    You are allowed to feel uncomfortable, but I wish to give you some content in order to understand why authors would add these things.

    I also felt uncomfortable at this part because I thought his crying was from pain/sadness. Though he later explained that he is still interested in being punished.

    Thank you for reading this (๑•ㅂ•)و✧

    Fetish Love December 17, 2020 11:15 pm
    Some people have a kink for being forced. So they will say things like “Stop” or “No more.” However in reality they don’t really want it to stop. It’s more accurate to say that they think it’s “... Astrid

    applause for this comment!!

    Astrid December 18, 2020 12:27 am
    applause for this comment!! Fetish Love

    Thank you ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ノ~ I can tell by your username we understand each other well lol.