people can disagree with that concept you know that right?
yes, i know that. what do you think made me write the comment in the first place? but uh.. thank you so much for the incredibly valuable addition to my comment. very useful, not.
keep thinking your friends owe you all their personal secrets that they're hiding for completely valid reasons that have nothing to do with you or whatever concept is it you disagree with.
you’re so off the mark it isn’t even funny. your friends don’t owe you anything but you can’t expect people not to be hurt when their best and only friend is hiding something so essential from them. also this guy isn’t just freaking out about his friend being gay he’s also realizing he’s jealous and also likes him. you’re taking the situation and shredding it’s context.
eh re-read my comment bc i was never talking about jiho. i know why he's acting the way he is, i'm reading the fucking manhwa. my comment was about the people here commenting about youngji being a shitty friend just because he didn't want to be out to his best friend just yet. especially after this chapter where he explained why so clearly. and i never said the friend in question can't be hurt by the situation either, all i'm saying is that making it about you, and your feelings makes you the shitty friend. you can be hurt by it and also realize that it's not about you and your feelings come in second in this situation. that's it.
your feelings don’t need to come in second at any point in time. Someone can feel hurt and vocalize it and not be a shitty friend
i'm sorry but the moment you make someone else's coming out about your feelings instead of theirs you're a self-centered prick and you suck. that's all there is to it.
friend 1: i know you're gay and you hurt me by hiding it
friend 2: i was scared shitless of telling you
friend 1: i dont give a fuck, i'm sad you didn't tell me how could you not think of my feelings first???
friend 2: i wasn't ready to tell you for these very valid reasons: bla bla and bla
friend 1: do i look like i care??? i am HURT!!!!!!1 AND THIS IS ABOUT ME. you should have known i was gonna accept you
friend 2: maybe some of my fears are irrational but they're still my fears
friend 1: you've broken my heart. how could you be such a shitty friend. :(((((
sorry for laying it on so thickly but this is essentially what you're defending lmao
thats literally not what happened lol again, fuck the context right? you just care about boiling shit down but not seeing exaclty what happened and why it happened. you’ve got no sense or you’re just being intentionally dense
you gotta be fucking kidding me
lemme break it down for you, step by step.
1. people have been calling youngji a bad friend for not coming out to his best friend since the manhwa started, like jiho's entitled to this just for being his friend.
2. youngji just explained why he hadn't told jiho yet and how he wasn't ready for jiho to know.
3. people are still calling him a bad friend, like youngji enjoyed lying to his friend and how he should have told jiho much earlier and how he's so lucky to have a supportive friend. jiho is a saint since he doesn't hate gay people apparently. i thought that just made you a decent person but not according to some comments here.
4. i, after seeing this bullshit in the comments, wrote my own comment explaining why everyone saying that shit sucks. you, for whatever reason i still don't get, wanted to remind me not everyone agrees with what i said.
5. i said thanks and made my point again. and you agreed! you said, it's true being friends doesn't mean you're entitled to know everything about that person if they're not ready to tell you for whatever reason. and then you brought up the fact that they can still be hurt and started talking about what happened in the manhwa.
6. then i said: hey i know, i'm reading the manhwa too but i wasn't talking about the story. then i agreed with you and said, sure they can be hurt but it's not the right time to bring up those feelings. your best friend just came out to you!! if they were hiding it for so long they probably had their reasons. how about, instead of making it about your hurt feelings, you try and be supportive, like any decent friend would??
7. but you disagreed with this and said no!! my feelings come first always so i wrote that dialogue to show you what i meant and how dumb that sentiment is in this specific situation but you made it about the fucking manhwa again lmao??????? i know that's not what happened in the story, i never said it was. jeez. i really don't get what your problem is, if you think i'm attacking jiho or what, because let me tell you jiho is my fav character in this story and i'm 100% rooting for him.
in conclusion: my comments are for the people that are unable to put themselves in youngji's shoes and refuse to have any kind of empathy for him. like he literally said he's still struggling with this and he was scared of losing jiho and ppl still don't wanna understand his pov. is that clearer now or do you still feel the need to argue??
lgbtq+ ppl don't owe you shit! they decide when and who they come out to! i can't believe after this chapter where youngji EXPRESSED HIMSELF so clearly you guys still think he is in the wrong. someone else's coming out is NOT about you, even if they're your best friend. how hard is that to understand.