this comment really hit me in the gut
Ikr, me too the same as her no matter how hard I work for them they never ever even think of what I do or did for them. Instead they keep on counting my flaws. i do love them but at the same time I hate them for not even once appreciate what i did. So to keep my love for them continued instead of letting my hates accumulate I choose to live apart from them so that sometimes I will still miss them (=・ω・=)
When people take things for granted, I realized that using emotions and sympathy as a weapon is powerful. Abandon the need to be appreciated by the way. This is just advice coming from an ex-pushover and doormat. Don't live your life for others.
Agree n I'm also already long time ago graduate from being pushover n ppl pleaser ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~
Sometimes, no matter how much you despise your family --- when they truly disappear or abandon you, it will feel like you still lost everything. When you provide for a family who takes your efforts for granted, in the back of your head, you will hold a strange sense of self-gratification since you feel like an actual independent person. I can't quite put it in words but that love-hate relationship with family is a real thing and honestly it's also the most toxic thing ever.