I mean I wouldn’t say that your wrong, because most beginner fujoshis do think that the bigger one should be top and smaller cute one should be bottom, but that’s only because they probably haven’t seen many opposite couples. By that I mean that they’ve probably only read things like Cherry blossoms during winter, BJ Alex, love is an illusion pretty much all the most popular stuff so they haven’t really gotten into the deeper big bottom small top. BUT I have been reading yaoi for like 7 years now and I prefer big top small bottom because I think that a cute bottom that breaks easily is better sex-wise than a big buff bottom. This is totally just my opinion so take it with a grain of salt
I mean I wouldn’t say that your wrong, because most beginner fujoshis do think that the bigger one should be top and smaller cute one should be bottom, but that’s only because they probably haven’t seen many opposite couples. By that I mean that they’ve probably only read things like Cherry blossoms after winter, BJ Alex, love is an illusion pretty much all the most popular stuff so they haven’t really gotten into the big bottom small top. BUT I have been reading yaoi for like 7 years now and I prefer big top small bottom because I think that a cute bottom that breaks easily is better sex-wise than a big buff bottom. This is totally just my opinion so take it with a grain of salt
I’m so sorry I didn’t mean to post it so many times my phone was glitching so I spammed the button lol
Depends on the cliche for me. Sometimes I still prefer bigger tops and smaller bottoms however something that has changed since my beginning fujo stage is that I really prefer older uke and younger seme and that usually works best when the seme is larger and the uke is smaller. Depends of the dynamic for me
Duuuude im a simp for a big younger seme and a small older uke ex "lover boy" was too good
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True! The norm has always been big seme small uke in my head if its size, but i guess what i rlly meant was the ones that rlly oppose the idea of “big bottoms” since normally i’d just roll with whatever (still prefer my norm tho), moreover there’s a long list of yaoi mangas with petite ukes, hence faster boredom of the “big seme small uke” norm, so i think ones like these are kinda more rare (ignoring the plot cos alot of ppl hate this manga due to it).
Did u just say “cute bottom that breaks easily”?
Cos goddamit i agree
Yessss u know lol
Am i wrong to think that the ones who said they prefer Eiji as top and Rui as bottom are “beginner” fujoshis/fudanshis? Cos ngl i used to think buff seme, petite uke was the “ideal” until I got bored of it, and behold masculine ukes were introduced to me and i don’t regret it.