Guys I have a problem, so I'm dating a girl online because she loves me but I dont and and...

Naki_ |なき| December 22, 2020 10:09 pm

Guys I have a problem, so I'm dating a girl online because she loves me but I dont and and i feel really bad since she's really sensitive and tried to khs so many times, the problem is I want to break up but I'm scared to be the reason she died. Please give me some tips

Responses
    sophie December 22, 2020 10:10 pm

    it's better to end it than lie longer..

    DJnickie December 22, 2020 10:14 pm

    Um I don't think she are the ppl to ask. Maybe tell her parents first if you're worried for her safety so that they know what's going to happen, but you are not responsible for her. Your feelings matter too

    asmolmochi December 22, 2020 10:27 pm

    i would try to explain to her that you’re not looking for a relationship anymore and if you keep dating her you also feel like you’re doing her harm as well. if she’s mentally not in a good place, she shouldn’t feel that a relationship will be the only thing keeping her alive. from what i read she needs some sort professional help, like a therapist, and you cant give that to her. also if you’re breaking up with her i would clearly state that you are not breaking up with her because she is a burden. you just fell out of love which is normal and natural. if she threatens to hurt herself i would try to contact someone close to her so know she has some support system that she can rely on and not resort to violence. even if she hurts herself you are not to blame since she could just seek help but by hurting herself she’s actively choosing to cause you guilt and blame. she may not realize that but if anyone threatens you with suicide that’s fucking toxic and they need help.