annoyed by them?
i get more annoyed when the uke is too wimpy and accepting...i like it when they actually like stand up for themselves and put the semes to shame :)
like actually put up a fight, not just a feeble effort and then after sex is like hmmm maybe i like this guy
Well it depends...if the plot is decent I don't mind a so called "sadist" seme. But there's a significant difference between being abusive and being an S. S/M is meant to be consensual. In reality an S is loving and kind to their partners outside the bedroom and kinky in the bedroom. Sadism isn't meant to make it acceptable for a man/woman to be overly controlling, bully people, etc. Its supposed to be a sexual kink based on mutual comprehension that the pain given to an M is meant purely as a means of pleasuring and/or training the M to enjoy more advanced levels of sensation. The S finds pleasure not in making someone suffer just for the hell of it - they enjoy making someone suffer specifically as a means to enhance sexual sensations. S/M, especially when it becomes BDSM, is based on a strong sense of trust and isn't meant to be practiced without either a written or spoken contract. Basically what I mean to say here is that the S personalities portrayed in bl manga aren't true sadists. They're abusive, selfish jerks. An S isn't selfish; he/she desires to give pain only to people in the sexual sense in order to intensify the pleasure their partners experience.
The origins of the terms stem from the Marquis de Sade, a crazy-ass French aristocrat who did XXX+ criminal torture in bed. I read a bit of a lewd book by him and discovered his perversions were too extreme for me and that his idea of a good time would today be featured on Law & Order Special Victims Unit. He was incarcerated and eventually died in an insane asylum. Nowadays being an S doesn't send you to jail, but it's still about sexual misdeeds, not about bullying your kouhais.
I annoyed by it too XD idk im just a choosy person hehe
Well, thank you for that long reply and umm you are right, usually i like that kind of couples too but sometimes its just makes me uneasy. It makes me feel seme is being selfish and doesnt care about others feelings, but now i can think about that differently and i feel better about them thank you~ <3 (sorry for my poor english;;)
Yeah it can get both annoying and boring because it's so repetitive.
Depends on the story , I guess.
Am i the only one who annoys from sadist semes