the haesoo slander

cxxrx December 24, 2020 6:25 am

not @ people suddenly switching up and saying no one should end up together just bc their ship isn't sailing anyways joohae cuties

and not @ people blaming haesoo!?? did you read?? imagine slandering hs when hs never even led on tk in the first place. he even persistently said no to taku but trickass lil shit wont take no for an answer and even until now, he continues to be obsessive and controlling bc hs went to jw bc of an accident?? the fact that <spoiler>in the recent chapters, when they broke up, tk had the audacity to guilt trip haesoo for going to joowon instead of his after party?? miss me with his bullshit<spoiler>

stop blaming haesoo for the shit taku chose to involve himself in. even hs didn't want his ass but taku insisted that hs can use him and he did what are yall mad for?? tk got what he wanted but now hs got tired of playing his game, hs had every right to walk tf away.

taku deserves better blah blah, no he doesn't?? he deserves that shit. he inserted himself ON HIS OWN ACCORD without hs manipulating and forcing his ass!! between him and hs, it is HAESOO WHO DESERVES BETTER than being manipulated and being used as tool to satisfy a manchild's wants so he doesn't throw a tantrum

Responses
    やおいはかんぺき December 24, 2020 6:31 am

    Preach it sis! I couldn't have worked it better!

    gardenfairy December 24, 2020 7:15 am

    PREACH PREACH
    all the ppl victimizing taku in the comments and pulling the "taku deserves better than haesoo", "haesoo mistreated him" bullshit disgust me. i-it's almost like they didn't read the story.

    Milky™ December 24, 2020 7:02 pm
    PREACH PREACHall the ppl victimizing taku in the comments and pulling the "taku deserves better than haesoo", "haesoo mistreated him" bullshit disgust me. i-it's almost like they didn't read the story. gardenfairy

    maybe bc he does lmao- taku told him to use him, but still taku deserves better than that, lmao

    gardenfairy December 24, 2020 7:43 pm
    maybe bc he does lmao- taku told him to use him, but still taku deserves better than that, lmao Milky™

    “Taku deserves someone who likes him back”
    Stop with yalls unecessary haesoo slander is all im saying

    Milky™ December 25, 2020 6:53 am
    “Taku deserves someone who likes him back”Stop with yalls unecessary haesoo slander is all im saying gardenfairy

    Where was I slandering Haesoo? All I said was Taku deserves the love and care of someone- lmao never said anything bad abt joowon and Haesoo

    gardenfairy December 25, 2020 11:04 pm
    Where was I slandering Haesoo? All I said was Taku deserves the love and care of someone- lmao never said anything bad abt joowon and Haesoo Milky™

    okay well thats fine then.

    a lot of taku stans DO slander haesoo by claiming taku is too good for haesoo or some bs like that. that's what i meant. "taku deserves better than haesoo" can have two different meanings if you consider that

    Milky™ December 26, 2020 5:28 am
    okay well thats fine then.a lot of taku stans DO slander haesoo by claiming taku is too good for haesoo or some bs like that. that's what i meant. "taku deserves better than haesoo" can have two different meani... gardenfairy

    And haesoo deserves better than jowoon. Jowoon literally r^ped him.... The inly person who was really bad was Jowoon. Haesoo and Taku may have been manipulative, but Jowoon was a whole different level. I just hope Haesoo and Jowoon can work their stuff out and Taku find someone who won’t use him.

    gardenfairy December 26, 2020 10:26 am
    And haesoo deserves better than jowoon. Jowoon literally r^ped him.... The inly person who was really bad was Jowoon. Haesoo and Taku may have been manipulative, but Jowoon was a whole different level. I just h... Milky™

    you're dumb. joowon raped him? JOOWON RAPED HIM WHERE. WHERE??
    maybe read this thread if you're that thick and you cant understand joohae dynamics, especially when it comes to sex: https://twitter.com/joohaes/status/1340059953155870721?s=20
    (read the quote retweets while youre at it. altho not all of those are particularly helpful lol)

    taku/haesoo dubcon is what's actually sickening considering they have no established history and sexual understanding between each other and it's just constant pressure from one end to the other.

    gardenfairy December 26, 2020 10:41 am
    you're dumb. joowon raped him? JOOWON RAPED HIM WHERE. WHERE??maybe read this thread if you're that thick and you cant understand joohae dynamics, especially when it comes to sex: https://twitter.com/joohaes/st... gardenfairy

    aight i take back the "youre dumb" part cause i realize, maybe yeongdam wasnt clear enough about this and some things were lost in korean translation (as i am a kr translator). but either way, the twitter thread explains things fairly clearly and how anything they did is far from "rape" but rather joowon purposely doing things to provoke/anger the other, and haesoo actually gets off on it (they both do). PLUS, some underlying dom/sub dynamics between them.
    the car scene between joohae was joowon reading the room a little wrong as he was going off their usual dynamics. but when haesoo gave him a hard "STOP", he did clearly stop (plus he looked surprised) and haesoo admits jw wasnt in the wrong to be surprised.

    Milky™ December 26, 2020 4:30 pm
    you're dumb. joowon raped him? JOOWON RAPED HIM WHERE. WHERE??maybe read this thread if you're that thick and you cant understand joohae dynamics, especially when it comes to sex: https://twitter.com/joohaes/st... gardenfairy

    I hope you know saying “stop” is unconsenual.

    gardenfairy December 26, 2020 7:04 pm
    I hope you know saying “stop” is unconsenual. Milky™

    that is really not how things work in many types of dom/sub dynamics. which again, makes sense with joohae who had 10 years to establish this. when haesoo says "stop" in a blatantly serious tone, with a physical indicator, you can see that joowon actually stops.

    cannot say the same for taku who barely knows haesoo but loves pulling some dubcon shit on him (the number of times haesoo has said "stop", or "wait", or was unwilling to engage with him lol).

    Milky™ December 27, 2020 10:29 am
    that is really not how things work in many types of dom/sub dynamics. which again, makes sense with joohae who had 10 years to establish this. when haesoo says "stop" in a blatantly serious tone, with a physica... gardenfairy

    Which is just justifying the idea of forcing someone. The scene can be interpreted in different ways depending on your sexual range/knowledge. To me it wasn’t right. I’ve been sexually harassed, so it is just different to me. And yes I shouldn’t use my trauma as an excuse, but to different people, it may be bad, to some it may be fine.

    gardenfairy December 27, 2020 7:29 pm
    Which is just justifying the idea of forcing someone. The scene can be interpreted in different ways depending on your sexual range/knowledge. To me it wasn’t right. I’ve been sexually harassed, so it is ju... Milky™

    Mmmmm no at your first sentence. I mean you can say its up to interpretation, but you cant just totally ignore Haesoo explaining his physical relationship with Joowon. It's not from Joowon's pov or you'd be able to say "yeah he's justifying his own actions" or "he's excusing himself". I just cant read Haesoo's pov and then think its "rape" or "assault". And yeah I've experianced SA as well and I dont think Haesoo's thoughts make it sense to call it that at all.
    I guess we just can't see eye to eye on this but whatever ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭