Trauma about sex is called sexual guilt. Even married people have it. I’ve had it before and I started crying when I slept with my boyfriend because I felt so guilty. It’s real. It makes you feel like you’re doing something wrong or you’re doing something dirty. It makes you feel extremely uncomfortable and it’s really hard to overcome it. In a way I feel like blonde hair is really making black hairs trauma a lot harder on him. Blonde should be taking a softer approach and not go full on in it.
Oof I totally get what you're saying, but like I'm trying not to put myself into tamaki's shoes? Like i know i would hate everything shii is doing, but maybe it's helpful to tamaki??
Trauma about sex is called sexual guilt. Even married people have it. I’ve had it before and I started crying when I slept with my boyfriend because I felt so guilty. It’s real. It makes you feel like you’re doing something wrong or you’re doing something dirty. It makes you feel extremely uncomfortable and it’s really hard to overcome it. In a way I feel like blonde hair is really making black hairs trauma a lot harder on him. Blonde should be taking a softer approach and not go full on in it.