damn right!!! He’s still a kid and is prob doing the best he can because he doesnt understand the uke’s situation very well!! (since he’s not a psychologist lol). Well said!!!
it's just that healing isn't immediate. taking the time to prepare is a process in itself, which can take days, weeks months. it's normal and depends on each person. so in a more healthy relationship, the top should've been patient and respected the bottom's hesitation and do something else until the latter can get more used to him.
I think you would be completely right if they weren't just (stupid) teenagers. I mean, the top cares about the bottom and he’s really trying to help- well, it’s not like he’s an angel who doesn’t consider what he wants too and i think that’s why people are feeling uncomfortable in some way, i get it, but it's just strange that they demand that a teenager knows how to deal with a psychological disorder as a mature adult would, they should normalize characters in anime/manga not being perfect. Anyway! your opinion is also valid, i'm not here to say that im right or be rude.
i wish i could like your reply >_<
uh, i cant understand how the seme is being pushy. hes just handling the situation in the best way, like...? They talked about it and the uke accepted it, sometimes i think we’re not reading the same manga, guys.