I don't know what you mean by "family", but to me, my partner supports me more than my parents or family ever could and brings me more happiness so personally I think a lover can become family and more. Healthy romance is stronger than family or guardian or friend bonds in my experience.
Well yeah, You got a point but that doesn't implies to everyone, like you said based on your own experience. But for me Tara didn't experience a warmth or love from a family so I think she is not ready for a romance yet but even so, even if judas is the ML I can't do anything about it cuz I'm not even the author, I'm just saying
Yes, for me, she can find out what family is and have the warmth of a family when she makes her own with her husband one day. I think the cat and the other guy [the butler/cook dude] can fall in the "family" warmth category but not Judas. Dunno but we will see where this goes. I'm just kind of upset how so many people diss this because of age gap" or "he raised her" arguments when she is already a teen and a person in her own right who doesn't need an authority figure anymore really.
Fully agreed! What was the author thinking? Converting the 1st father like figure into a lover ughh! Stinks of codependency & abuse to me, not to mention pendiphilia!!! N don’t even get me started on the amount of readers who r shipping this shit!
Kinda uncomfortable tho, Tara didn't have someone like a dad or a guardian to her, Everyone treated her like a shit. Tara needs someone as A father figure and Not an ML and romance. She just need someone who will take care of her. I am uncomfortable when u ship her with Judas. Just because they aren't related that doesn't mean they can't became a family . Tara need family and not romance